Why Do Men Fall for Difficult and Untouchable Women?
And here comes the counter question: why do women feel so attracted to “bad boys”?
The reason is simple – everything that in fact is no good for us actually attracts us. Smoking, alcohol, chocolate… it is so hard to resist them.
Men and women always want what is hard to get. Hard at least in the beginning. Anyone who can easily “fall into our lap” can’t expect to succeed because he/she will be too boring for us. Easy prey is never tasty.
Worldwide experience shows that if a man acted like an arrogant little puppy pleased to flirt, he would most likely get only a comforting pat on the head.
An experienced and pushy woman, who originally seemed unattainable, a little spooky, not always available and used to leave men with the impression that her life was great either with or without men, becomes a real challenge for most of the male specimens on the planet. Such woman must be conquered first. Actually it’s no wonder that men find this attractive. And also, let’s be honest, women also don’t want to receive their object of desire on a silver platter. Women prefer a quality love adventure such as “he loves me, he loves me not.”
However such an adventure depends on the man because some men would look very yummy exactly on a silver platter.