What Women Want

What a Woman wants?

For millennia men all over the world have pondered, studied and had sleepless nights over this question. What does make her tick? Why does she do the things she does? Why is she so different? Is there a secret to this beautiful ‘species’ that we men don’t know about? For many years now, I have read tons of books and articles on understanding the opposite sex. But it was only after I got married, that I truly began to understand what makes a women tick, and how wonderful she can be once you really get to know her.

Granted, I personally think my wife is one in a million. And I’m truly fortunate to have her. But I’m going to list out a few attributes that are common to every woman, regardless of her marital status, race, and religion or even who she is married to. Guys, this is for you, pay attention:-

What she needs

1.       Understanding – Women by nature are more gentle and sensitive. She looks at the world and experiences it through her heart. This is why she feels things more deeply and is easily moved by something that we guys might fail to even notice. And it if for this very reason that she needs to be understood. A woman craves nothing more than for understanding from the one she loves. She wants him to be sensitive to her feelings, anticipate her needs and understand what she is going through. Understanding is what most married women wish their marriage had.

2.       Security – Women need security. Ever since she was a little girl, she has always looked up to her dad as her protector and defender. And as a young woman she looks for it from the man she is pursued by. She needs to know that he will always be there for her, protect her and defend her. When she has that, she feels safe. She feels secure.

3.       Love – The average woman is a romantic to the core. Some women who have had a traumatic or abusive past often turn bitter and hard. Some women for reasons unknown may put up a stone wall around their emotions and may appear to not need love. But this is not true. There is nothing more that a woman desires than to be the object of someone’s affection. She loves to be loved. And she has plenty within her. The more she is loved on, the more love she has to give.