What Women Want

Women want to be the one her husband, BFF, or partner can be there for no matter what the circumstances.   Women are the most giving people on earth and want to give of their time, talents and treasures for that special someone. Great conversation and the bonding chemistry of just listening to common interests aptly should be on the shopping list.  Love, obviously should spice up the list of what women want.  Love is so very complex that most women may settle for the drive in them to be their best, hoping to please the overly visually equipped male. 

These women plan on working on the “L” word later.  First, the hook has to fit into the relationship just right to do its job of connectivity.  Women having an equally overly equipped emotional paradigm, seek someone to understand her wants, needs and desires initially with absence of any sexual illusions.  A woman knows right away if the chemistry connects with her in all aspects of her being.  Logically, women do not want someone who can dish out one liners like a GEICO commercial.

There is no need for a “good game” on his part if the conversation, listening, common interests and connectivity are in place.  There is one problem with what women want, in most instances, their wants are not on the same playing field as what men want.  The resultant factor to fix the equilibrium is to get his attention visually and work up to the other steps to get what they want.  Women work hard for what they want and some even change their lives to meet the needs of others.  Another alternative is to grace the planet Venus alone with family and friends comfortable in her own skin and satisfied with who and where she is irregardless of what men want.