Turn Your Woman on Through Non-sexual Ways

Men and women vary in so many ways it is almost impossible to keep track. This causes a lot of confusion and errors when it comes to communication and dating. In terms of what they consider as sexually stimulating, the differences are very apparent. While men can be stimulated through visual experiences like an exposed cleavage or pouty lips, female stimulation involves them looking for “other qualities” that make men sexy. A lot of women do not get turned on by the mere presence or exposure of a man’s “unit.” This is bad news for guys who try to seduce women in the same manner that they want to be seduced.

So what helps turn on a woman? Here are some suggestions that may work for a good number (not all!) of ladies:

Woman in satin dress holding mirror (Photo credit: George Eastman House)

Your Fresh or Clean Scent

Women like clean guys. Not a lot of girls find the “sweaty, fresh from the gym” scent attractive. They prefer guys who just came out of the shower, wearing a hint of cologne. They, however, do not want their men to smell sweeter than them. This may work better than the most common aphrodisiacs available. Note however that too much cologne or soap may end up turning her off.

A Written Note

Technology has almost killed the romance of writing love letters and notes. Text messaging and emails have replaced what used to be one of the most romantic acts of love ever invented. Slipping an unexpected love note in the most random of places would not only lift her spirits, but also lower her skirt. Bringing back romance in your lives would be a much more effective tool compared to porn flicks or thongs.

Build a Tree House

Okay, so it doesn’t have to be a tree house. It could be a fence, a wooden stool, a rock garden, or a mini pool. Women love guys implementing a project. Whatever it may be, women are turned on when they see raw dedication, industry and focus from their men. It will be an added bonus for them if you are working on something that would benefit them personally.

Show Your Soft Side

Women love a strong man, but they also want to see your soft side once in a while. If you blush out of embarrassment for something hilarious that you did (unless it’s something disgusting), they respond positively. If you pull the car over because you wanted to help a kitten stuck on a tree branch, you will probably get some action later on. Women crave sensitivity from guys, and giving that to them on occasion is a great way of getting something else in return.

These “suggestions” may or may not work on certain personality types. That much I can guarantee. But you may want to think about these suggestions on how to turn women on the next time your bicep flex or strip tease does not get the desired results. After all, you will surely need all the help you can get when you are in need of ways to improve your relationship with your girl.