Treating Your Man with Respect

Men want to be respected by their wives.  Women want to be heard by their husbands.  Sometimes a woman forgets that one of her mans biggest needs is to be loved and respected.  When a woman puts down her man in front of others or even when you are alone it makes him feel like an ant, very small.  And men do not like to feel small.  We do not respond well to feeling insignificant and belittled.  You will never get what you want from your man by telling him how stupid, insignificant and wrong he is.  If you love your man, you will honor him with praises.  I am not saying to lie to him, but find ways and things about him that you like that you can tell him about.  He will be putty in your hands.  A mans desire is for his woman to love and respect him.  If she does that, she has figured him out.  The secret is, women do not get it for the most part.  They think that we think like they do.  We like to give solutions to problems, not just talk about them.  We are inherently different and must find ways to figure each other out.  Love your man with all you have.  This means respecting him and lifting him up in front of your children.  Men should do the same for their wives.

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