Single Mothers
What the fuss about it?
Single mothers love to proclaim, when facing crisis as a single parent. That they are a single mother. But what crisis or situation put you in that position. If you cheated with a parent man. Then that the solution you faced. If your spouse is bringing law abiding rules. And you knew he was. That’s the situation you faced in the end.
Now if death played apart. Then that situation was probably not foreseen. The decision not to marry the child father. Played apart in you being a single mother. This old policy. I don’t need a man. True, but don’t act like you’ve doing something great about being a single mother. You’re doing your job as a parent. Yes, as a parent. And that don’t have anything to do as a mother. Just being responsible for your child welfare.
There are a growing number of single fathers. And a good majority don’t claim the single father call that the females do. Understand the action we make. Have a re action to face. So let us start saying as a parent it’s our job to look out for our children. Single or not.
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June 26th, 2009 at 10:45 pm
Fathers are not all married. And some are doing a tremendous job.
July 1st, 2009 at 10:30 pm
I DONT LIKE YOUR POST… MAYBE YOU DONT HAVE ANY EXPERIENCE
July 2nd, 2009 at 11:30 pm
It’s true there are a growing number of single fathers out there. Yes some are doing a tremendous amount of work but to be honest with you most of the fathers I meet spend a lot less time with their kids than the mother does. I am a single mother. I don’t want to be with the father because he became abusive and controlling after we were married. I do not consider this my fault and will not tolerate it. Because I dont want to be with him, he rarely sees his daughter. I leave it his choice if he wants to see her or not because it causes me less problems of him accusing me that its my fault he doesnt get to see her.
Anyway, if I knew what the future would have brought I might have done some things differently such as marrying him. All I know is that I have a beautiful daughter out of all of that and she is my pride and joy. I hope I will find her a good step father/male role model one day since her father doesnt have much to do with her. I think it’s very important that a child have the father be a part of their life but I can’t make him do what he doesnt want to do.
July 3rd, 2009 at 12:55 am
Well have the ladies got upset over this subject. Quit complaing and just fulfill your assigned job. Of the two sexes women complain about being a single parent. There’s no need. Fathers just don’t get on the pity train.
Just like child support. If men who are raising their children start hitting women up for child support more. Then we could understand your sorrow.
Nobody knows the trouble I seen. Nobody complain like a woman.