Reasons Why She Wont Commit Just Yet
You run to her with a smile on your face, ready to propose but she wipes that stupid smile away. She is not ready to commit! Why would any woman turn down a proposal, why would she run away from commitment? Here are some possible reasons for her lack of commitment.
Your girlfriend or woman friend keeps waiting for that day when you will propose. For her, engagement and that big wedding are everything she ever dreamt of. She counts the days with bated breath, waiting, waiting and waiting even more for the day you will go down on one knee and pop the question. If you thought the answer will always be yes, well think again for there are reasons why she may not commit just yet.
- She is seeing another man – So you think you are God’s gift to women and take them for granted, well your woman could be seeing another man, hence the reason for her hesitation. Her no will wipe away the smile from your face but if you want to preserve some dignity, read the signs and don’t insist.
- She doesn’t know you – Unlike men who will bed anything that wears a blouse, most women take their time before committing. Turning down your proposal may mean she needs more time to know you, to understand the kind of man you are and not necessarily rejection.
- You are poor – No woman will ever tell you to your face how your poverty or near poverty irks her, but it surely does. While money may not mean the world, love can not put food on the table. If your pockets are forever empty, your woman needs to know that you have the ambition, the will to succeed despite your present financial challenges.
- She loves her space – Not every woman longs for the kind of leash that marriage purports. Some women love their cake but would want to eat it too. Don’t be surprised if she turns you down for this reason but hangs around for longer for modern career women often hesitate when the idea of marriage is flaunted in their faces.
- She still loves her ex – Hmmmmmh, you came onto the scene and picked up the pieces but she never got over her ex and still hopes he will come back and beg her forgiveness. While you may be the best thing that ever happened to her since the break up, she may not commit until she is sure her ex has moved on and won’t be available in the near future.
Like they say, everyone is unique but women are even more unpredictable. While her reasons may never be revealed, the five mentioned in this article could be good guesses.