Party Girl

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     You have a great personality.  That’s right!  You’re the one who clears the dance floor, can hang with the best of them, sometimes you drink others under the table, and you often create your own funny, four-letter words while you bond with the guys.  And although you’re single, you’re loved by every partier; both men and women adore you as a friend.  However, each time you set out on your way to a party, there is a part of you that hopes to meet a nice guy.  You’re tired of one nightstands, waking up next to strangers, and you’re desperately wanting to settle down, but you’re having trouble finding a man.  Why?

     You’re surrounded by men weekly, sometimes nightly, and some take you home, but later leave you forever.  You realize you’re not the worst looking woman alive, and you know that you have a good personality, so what is wrong with you, why can’t you keep a man?  The truth is simple, it’s not rocket science, and if you ask some men they will admit that, “No one wants to marry the party girl.”

     For many men (decent men) a party girl is just that.  She is fun to party with; drink with, dance with, and sometimes sleep with, but she’s not the one to take home to mom (after all, decent men with decent mothers look for women who in some way remind them of their mothers) or the one who will be chosen to have his mom’s grandchildren.  Party girl, you’re a hoot and the life of the party, but if you’re ready to settle down with a good man you might need to make some changes.