Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus-what Does It Mean Really?
John Gray the famous relationship expert from the USA published this book in the year 1992. The book was a big hit. It tells about different behaviors of men and women. Read more…..
Yes, men and women are different: Men and women are different. They have different natures, different emotions and different thoughts. John Gray says that both men and women should understand these differences and learn to live accepting the differences of the opposite sex. I can’t accept all his views but I want to share my views on this topic.
Different views of men and women: Yes they have different views on many things. That is why we say that they might have come from two different planets. Men want to earn money, fame and name. Love is part of their life. Woman’s world usually revolves around her man and her kids. Career is just a part of her life. Man wants his talents to be recognized while woman wants her emotions recognized.
Different nature: Men are not expressive enough, at least that’s what women think. Men do express their love during the initial period of the relationship. Then they know for sure that their women are in love with them, so they stop expressing. Men talk to the needs mostly. Women on the other hand, just want to talk even if there is nothing to talk about. Men want to handle their problems on their own. Women want to share their problems with their dear ones and seek their support and help.
More differences: Women take small things seriously and manage big problems easily. They need to be loved, cared and respected by their men. They long for appreciation, respect, love and care. They can devote their lives for their men and their kids. Man does not remember birth days, marriage days etc, etc and these are not important to them. Women remember these days well and these days mean a lot to them. Men value gifts with the actual value of the gifts. Women value the gifts with the love associated with the gifts. In other words even small gifts can mean a lot to them if there is love from their men. Both men and women view sex differently. Men can have it with any woman if it is necessary for them. Women need to love a person to have sex.
Useful tips: So, it is obvious both men and women are a lot different in many ways. Imagine a man thinks the same way as woman thinks and vice versa. Both men and women will behave similarly and the attraction between them will not be there. You know, like poles repel each other. So we need to accept the opposite sex as they are and learn to adjust to their way of living.
Interesting news: In Indian Astrology, we refer certain planets a male planets and certain planets as female planets. Jupiter, Sun( It’s a planet as per Indian Astrology)Mars are male planets. Venus, Moon (it’s also a planet as per Indian Astrology)are female planets. Mercury is a neutral planet.
Summary: Had men come from Mars? And women from Venus? Let us not worry about it. Let us understand the opposite sex and live happily and make this Earth, Heavens.
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