How to Ask a Woman Out

First of all, to get a women to like you, you must first call for thier attention, that means, make sure they know you exist. You can do so by giving them compliments about their clothes or actions; for example if you notice she is wearing new clothes or hair cut, pass by her and say something like: “nice shirt” or “I like your hair better this way”, and do not forget to smile.

Once you are sure that they are aware of your co-existence with them in this world, you must make sure to impess them. You can do so by being confident, and direct. When you speak to them, don’t “dance” around with different topics. Stay focused and answer according to the conversation. Women respond when you pay attention.

If you have done both things above, you are ready to ask her out. If she doesn’t know you that well, the better. Why? well because women find mysteries attractive. The less they know about you, the more they think about you ( if you are interesting to them, of course).

To ask a woman out you need one thing only: confidence. When you approach a woman, you want to make sure she knows you are there, do not suprise her from behind, or interrupt a conversation. Maybe start by making eye contact first, in a party for example, wave and say “hi”. This way you can know if asking her out at that time is the right thing to do. What do I mean? well, you must be very careful at looking for the right signs. If she already waved at you, thus, knows you are there; she will act different. She will probably cut down on the food she is eating. That is a sign that she is being careful trying to not “look fat”, even if they are not fat, the do this (well, that or she’s on a diet). Also look for her eye contact every time you have a chance. If she looks around trying to find you, that means that she is at least a bit interested in you. This usally comes with a  smile, and she comes to where you are at, or signals you to go where she is at.

Now I will explain what to do if you find yourself in either of this situations:

1. If she comes to where you are at, officially recognize her, that means a kiss on a cheek and a hug with a “how are you doing?” or some related welcome. Also, introduce her to the people you are talking to, this will show that you have class.

2. If she signals you to go where she is at, it will be about the same as if she came, but there are some things you must remember. When you are walking towards her, do not look around. This shows that you are more interested in the party than in her. Walk tall. and speak loudly enough. If she is classy she will introduce you to her friends, if she doesn’t do not panic, there is a slight chance she doesn’t want her friends gossiping around about her and you. This probably means that she is interested, but not sure.

After both of you are talking and spending time, you can start thinking about asking her out. This will happen in two diferent ways. You can either ask her if you can have some time with her alone, for example: “can I talk to you real quick?” Or if you want to impress her even more, you can lay it out to her friends as a little joke, such as: “well i been thinking, maybe we should go on a date, you know?” This way you put pressure on her to answer right there and also, if her friends liked you, they will signal her to say yes, so make sure her friends like you.

After this you are on your own kid. I hope this helped.