Five Things Women Look for in Mr Right

August 15, 2013 by gogo77  
Published in Women

Five Things Women Look For In Mr Right.

When it comes to attracting women, sometimes you have to think like a marketer. You have to consider your “packaging,” and the way you present your “product.” That means you have to take the time to think like the “consumers” – women – and know what they want. Because when it comes to the world of female attraction, the customer is always right!

Remember that before they can get to know the “real” you, women only have visual cues on which to judge your worthiness: your clothes, your height, your demeanor, your status.

We men are just like any other product: we are immediately judged by the packaging. Whereas evolutionary science suggests that men consider only youth and physical attractiveness to select a mate or sex partner, women need more than that.

Their evolutionary hard-wiring, determined to find the best mate for them and their unborn children, requires them to look a little bit deeper for a worthy husband or sex partner. This is where we men have to put ourselves in the shoes of our “customers” if we want to sell our “product.”

One evolutionary scientist, Dr. David Buss, did a study of over 10,000 people in 37 countries, on six continents, and found that women value men based on three big things: ambition, status, and financial resources.

Similarly, relationship expert, Andrea P. Roberts, suggests that women determine a man’s worthiness based on 3 “T’s”, or “takais,” a Japanese word that represents good qualities: education level, physical height, and salary level.

Quite a bit deeper than having a nice ass and big breasts, isn’t it?

Okay, some of you may be thinking: Well, I’m not tall, and I’m not rich. Now what?!?

The good news is, height and wealth are only things that women pre-qualify men on; it’s not the be-all and end-all of attraction. It’s similar to saying you want a really expensive car…but that doesn’t mean you’d never drive a Honda.

As Roberts writes, “even an ordinary man doesn’t have to be exceptionally rich or powerful to make women want him. It’s all a matter of the women’s perspective if he ends up taller, smarter or wealthier than them.”

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