Everything Women Are Looking for in Men

The Average Woman

It all begins when we’re in our teenage years, around the age of 13, the age varies depending upon the female. Once you hit the turning point in your life that you throw down your barbies and begin to focus more on the boys, that’s when things begin to get complected. Male’s are so confusing at times, things were so much better when we thought they had cooties. I think about every woman can remember who her first crush was, an the day she received the crumbled up piece of paper that read “Would you be my girlfriend check yes or no” was the happiest day of her life, giggling and running home to call all her friends to tell them the best news ever.

Then when the boyfriend breaks up with you because his friends didn’t like you or whatever reason it may have been at that young age, your can remember how much you thought you loved him how you cried an thought it was the end of the world, yet now you can look back and laugh how silly it was an ask yourself “Omg can I have been anymore lame.” When we are young and naive we over react things that could very well be the silliest things that could have ever happened.

Over the years you get your heart broken a dozen times, yet still get out there an search for that special someone to come and sweep you off your feet. Had that one guy you dated all through high school, your high school sweetheart who you thought you would spend the rest of your life with, then something happens. Either he wasn’t the one for you after all, or maybe you grew apart over the years. Somethings never change in the dating game you’ll always date a few guys who will either not be your type or your not their type. During my life so far I’ve found Mr. Wrong, Mr.Cheap, Mr.Rude, Mr. I don’t know what I want, and I’m still looking for my Mr.Right. Being single doesn’t mean your not good enough for someone it just means you haven’t found anyone good enough for you.

My Past Relationships            

It all begin my 6th grade year, when I threw my barbies down and got into the boys. I wasn’t popular, skinny with all the guys writing me notes and walking me to class. I was more of the chunky girl who guys never thought about. Then my 8th grade year I got my first boyfriend. Being thirteen at that time and having someone who payed attention to me meant a lot at that time. The relationship we had consisted of my best friend at the time running up to me in the lunch line telling me I had a boyfriend, then sitting together at lunch and talking on the phone after school. I received my first kiss that year at a football game, I sit back an read my dairy at that time… how much i loved him an blah blah blah, well to come find out he didn’t even really like me he just dated me to have a girlfriend, would break up with me all the time to get a kick out of it. At that age guys are more curl than ever!

Then high school begins, I was starting a new school, no friends didn’t know anyone from Adam or Eve, I was scared to death. I make friends, and realize things wasn’t as bad as I had thought they would have been. About half way through my freshman year I start dating this guy who I ended up dating for two years and a half. After my dad passed away due to cancer at the end of my junior year, I had a lot on my shoulders, after realizing the boy I was dating at the time wasn’t there for me like he should have been, I broke up with him. Breaking up with someone after they had prom tickets and it was so close to prom, I still asked him if he wanted to take me to prom still, that I wouldn’t leave him without a prom date, as long as he told me right then and there he still wanted me to go with him. Well the very next day at school I find out he was taking some other girl to prom, didn’t tell me and didn’t have any intentions on telling me, leaving me to think he was going with me. What made things worse at the time the next day was the due date to buy prom tickets. Prom at that age is a big deal so I went ahead and bought two tickets not having a date. Well things worked out, my cousin got someone to take me…. we end up dating and going to prom having the best time ever! Three months down the road he becomes more distant and from word of mouth cheated on me, so I broke it off. Then a year later homecoming comes up, I’m single its my senior year, couldn’t find a date to save my life. My cousin’s husband takes me to homecoming. After getting homecoming out of the way prom rolls around. Same problem, no date. I end up meeting a guy off myspace, that’s local, takes me to prom, well considering he’s a preacher and planning on going to college for it, and that my mom knew his parents I didn’t feel to bad. Well he ends up leaving me in the truck on the way to prom at the mall, to go inside to see another girl. My senior prom that was suppose to be the most amazing night of my life ended short and was the worst night of my entire life. Meeting guy # 5 off myspace wasn’t any better. At first he would send me messages after messages, trying to get me to talk to him, finally after finding out he would drive twenty minutes to just get service to talk to me on myspace I gave him a shot. We ended up dating, he would act like he was different from other guys, knowing my past relationships. Even bought multiply bags of sour gummy worms just to separate the red and yellow ones from the others knowing they were my favorite. A real sweet talker, things were finally looking up for me, feelings grew then a month and a half later after spending every single day with me he decides he doesn’t want a relationship. ” That it just didn’t feel right” whats that suppose to mean? This day and time wouldn’t surprise me if he was gay ha ha. Well guy #5 was more charming then the past guys, made me believe things that just wasn’t true. I’m still dealing with my last relationship which just ended about two weeks ago.

The moral to all this is no matter who they are, what profession their in, how sweet they are who what they get you to believe, they still can be self-centered losers. Never give up on finding someone who actually cares, keeping looking for that one guy who makes you realize why it never worked out with anyone else before. Maybe it takes going through different types of guys to find the one who can make you feel like no other can. He’s out there, don’t give up no matter what happens remember there’s someone out there looking for you just like your looking for them.