Their inability to face reality would cost them.
I was reading Steve Jackson’s novel “Monster” which in fact is a true life story about a serial killer who attacks and kills women. This serial killer was once in a hospital and the nurses and doctors were warned against going in alone to see him. This intrigued one of the nurses who went in alone to see him. She struck up a conversation, became friends and before you could say Jack Robinson, they were in a relationship. He was in jail then but was later released largely because of her appeals to the judges and her vote for his good and changed character. During this time, they had exchanged lots of letters and she (who was a psychiatrist by the way) could clearly see that he had not changed. She kept deluding herself that her love would change him. This man was later released and went on to kill a lot of people because of this woman’s inability to face reality. I am not being too hard on her. He would have still been released eventually but for those years he could have still been in jail and there would have been peace and people would have been safe for a little while longer.
This brings me to women who cannot handle reality. Why do women get themselves into dangerous situations all in the name of love? Why do they think that they or their love would change someone else especially when that person has no interest in change? Do they not realize that you can never change anybody except that other person makes the decision to change? Women dream up excuses to cover up for drastic flaws continuously. Whenever you find yourself constantly dreaming up excuses for someone’s behaviour, it should be a sign for you to sit up and take notice; something is wrong. If you do not get any other thing here, get this – you cannot change anybody except they make that decision themselves! You can only help AFTER they have made that decision. They say “love is blind” but I’ve never believed this. In case yours is blind, you had better go get yourself a pair of goggles right now!
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