Body Language: Four Sexual Signals Women Send Out
Remember that our unspoken language of love is universal. The postures, gestures and facial cues of attraction are the same everywhere, in all societies and cultures.
Signal 1 – making eye contact.
Undoubtedly, eye contact ranks right at the top as a nonverbal signal. Across all cultures, women use their eyes as a powerful flirting tool. Even a women covered from top to toe can flirt with a man with just her eyes. You do this: You look across the room and gaze at a certain man for a few second and look down when he notices you. You look up again at him and drop your gaze the moment his meets yours. You repeat this several times. What you’re telling him: To say to him that you fancy him and you want him to approach.
Signal 2 – hair preening.
Your hair reflects the state of your health and men are naturally attracted to women who embody youth and good health. Whether we have short or long hair, shiny, silky hair is always a turn-on. However, the women with long hair have a greater advantage since “76 per cent of men are attracted to women with long hair”. You do this: You push your hair behind your ears, toss your hair over your shoulders or play with your curls while talking. What you’re telling him: It’s is a way for a woman to subtly show that she cares about how she looks to a man. This also lets her expose her armpit, which allows the “sex perfume” known as pheromone to waft across to the target man”
Signal 3 – tilting your head to one side.
Just like the previous signal, it draws attention to your facial features. But we know men find an exposed neck alluring as well, given it’s another common kissable area. You do this: You tilt your head to the left or right side. It’s likely to happen during the course for a conversation. This draws attention to your neck. What you’re telling him: When you expose you neck, it tells a man that you’re putting yourself in a vulnerable position.
Signal 4 – Self-touching.
This refers to touching any part of your body, be it your throat, neck or thigh. Women’s body language is more sensual than that of a man. Furthermore, women have more nerve sensors for experiencing touch than men making them more sensitive to touch sensations. It’s no wonder that men get excited by women who indulge in self-touch. You do this: You finger your collarbone, put your hand to your check, or gently stroke your thigh. What you’re telling him: You’re telling him that if he plays his cards right, he may be able to touch you’re imagining what it might feel like if he were touching you instead.
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November 14th, 2008 at 3:09 am
Thanks for sharing!
November 14th, 2008 at 5:19 am
The soft touch of you,
She came back,
Reassuring.
j
November 14th, 2008 at 8:00 am
This is interesting I wonder how many women know this
November 14th, 2008 at 8:41 am
very interesting,thanks
November 14th, 2008 at 9:20 am
Interesting! I will definitely look for these signals!
November 14th, 2008 at 11:03 am
this is ridiculous & you certainly should not take any of them (ok, except maybe a woman stroking her own thigh) as clues… ESPECIALLY by the headings alone… which is probably all most read. none of these mean a damn thing. eye contact?? umm, rofl? :p
November 14th, 2008 at 1:07 pm
So you think you figured us out huh? lol….
November 14th, 2008 at 2:30 pm
Nice article!
November 14th, 2008 at 3:34 pm
Now I know. I hope this does not get me in trouble.LOL
November 14th, 2008 at 3:51 pm
Very interesting in deed. I wonder how many people agree with you. Nice work.
November 14th, 2008 at 5:03 pm
I completely agree! Experience has it that these are true.
November 14th, 2008 at 6:53 pm
So that is what guys mean when I exude sexuality or give them a look. I didn’t even know I did those things until you just brought them to my attention. Now I will have to pay more attention to get more attraction. LOL
November 14th, 2008 at 7:46 pm
Unless you have proof of expertise in body language or have properly given references, this should be interpreted as opinion.
November 14th, 2008 at 11:10 pm
Matt,
You are dead on with this one. A mature woman knows these things and they are all true. I have about five inches of neck and I am told about it all the time… Great job, great article!!!
November 15th, 2008 at 1:31 am
Opinion or not this is a good article and likely has some truth to it, the ideas are sound. Nice work.
November 15th, 2008 at 4:57 am
Much of this behavior is often the result of shyness, curiosity or being nervous. It doesn’t necessarily mean a lady is on the prowl, even though men may be attracted by it.
November 15th, 2008 at 6:28 am
How can I not comment on this one.
Some truth in all of it. However some women just want to play and they know exactly how to pull your strings. Sometimes its hard to tell if she is serious or just a pole dancer : )
If you get all these signals at once she is definitely a pole dancer.
The girl in the picture above could either be saying: I want to have your baby or don’t even think about getting any closer!
Grant
November 15th, 2008 at 6:34 am
Very nice! I came here skeptical, thinking I’d read some silly thing about glittery make-up and low riding jeans. A great article and bookmark worthy!
November 15th, 2008 at 6:53 am
GREAT ARTICLE!
November 15th, 2008 at 8:07 am
Hmmm, interesting, but I am pretty thick when it comes to signals. Maybe a brick in the face and I’d notice…
November 15th, 2008 at 9:57 am
Nice atricle, intersting facts that some of us man never knew about.
Thanks for sharing
November 15th, 2008 at 10:20 am
Like Grant said “how can I not comment on this one”
There is factual basis for this if you have taken the time to study body language. However one must be careful as in all such matters to use some common sence.
I have also read the comments and I have noticed that the ladies who have commented on this article have praised his work and most have acknoledged knowing this to be true it is only a few guys who seem to disagree. No point to this part of the comment just an observation.
Again very good work keep it up.
November 15th, 2008 at 10:59 am
Thanks Matt!! Informative and useful in practical living… Not many of the articles I read cover both those categories! I will now print and commit to memory these signals, and do my own research! If ya know what I mean…
November 15th, 2008 at 12:13 pm
I agree with #17. I have done these things without realizing I was doing them out of shyness, but aren’t we most shy around people who make a good impression on us and we are worried that they won’t like us as well?
November 15th, 2008 at 12:14 pm
Lol this is a gud article, nice work
November 15th, 2008 at 12:52 pm
What’s a “gud” article? ^^^
November 15th, 2008 at 3:21 pm
Wow, this was a great article. Sadly I didn’t know that I put out some of those signals. For me a lot of that is out of nervousness, but it’s good to know.
November 15th, 2008 at 3:56 pm
Must wear a polo neck jumper and classes to confuse the issue!
November 15th, 2008 at 5:23 pm
ill be sure to check for those signs. thanks a bunch
November 15th, 2008 at 7:23 pm
“This also lets her expose her armpit, which allows the “sex perfume” known as pheromone to waft across to the target man””
Well, I wouldn’t think I’d agree with you because the last time I checked, B.O. isn’t much of a turn-on at all.
November 15th, 2008 at 11:52 pm
LOL–Reminded me of what we, girls, used to tell each other when we were looking for the “right one” in college. You’re right about the signals but Gordon is also right that (in the end) the girl making the signals may not “mean it”. What happens is: you meet a guy, think he’s nice, attractive, and what have you, make the appropriate signals but as the evening wears on you realize you’ve made a mistake.
From the guy’s point of view you were “just teasing”; from the girl’s point of view you “made a mistake”. Or, at least that’s how it was for me.
Glad I’m out of that scene though!
Inna
November 16th, 2008 at 2:47 am
This article really opens both women’s and men’s eyes to the fact that women can send signals even unintensionally. Men somehow misjudge the signals and the whole thing can go wrong. but what you have wrote will enlighten the minds of plenty of people.
November 16th, 2008 at 3:21 am
hmmm….. not bad…….
Thanks for info…
November 16th, 2008 at 4:37 am
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL . YA
November 16th, 2008 at 7:55 am
awight i give ya tat tats part of flirting but just cuz a girl tilts her head sideways does not mean a man should jump on it, idk if this meant to say how men tink of women flirting or how women flirt but ima just make this clear to any1 out there:
there are n cheats to get u any 1 woman out there as all r diff and sum1 is gunna find sumtin insulting if u use it on every women or every man because people aint booby prizes
no one thing will eva eva work every time on one thing
November 16th, 2008 at 8:47 am
Wooooooo…
November 16th, 2008 at 10:33 am
Very interesting but true.
November 16th, 2008 at 11:53 am
Very informative.
November 16th, 2008 at 11:59 am
Well written my boy, 5 stars for this movie.
November 16th, 2008 at 1:38 pm
All secrets are out now
November 16th, 2008 at 5:08 pm
Thanks for sharing.. good info to share.
November 17th, 2008 at 1:08 am
Not entirely true.
November 17th, 2008 at 1:44 am
A mother glares at her child as she wrestles the hair band from her head. Tilting her head to one side,she pinches her forehead between thumb and forefinger, whispering through her gritted teeth, “What the hell do you mean you thought it was a massager?”…I take it this isn’t the same thing?
November 17th, 2008 at 2:35 am
Nice info!
November 17th, 2008 at 11:52 am
OMG. You mean that if I make eye contact, get my hair out of my face, and scratch my leg, I’m asking for sex? Can’t it be that my contacts are bothering me, my hair needs cut and a mosquito just bit me?
These sound like excuses for date rape, as in “she looked at me, so I knew she wanted it.”
November 17th, 2008 at 12:12 pm
Good write Matt
November 17th, 2008 at 12:25 pm
nice info
thogh not entirely correct
November 17th, 2008 at 4:31 pm
yeah, i never get any of these “signals”.
and i’m not getting a whole lot of dates on friday nights.
so i’m going to give you kudos, strictly from a sort of circular logic standpoint. the absence of these signals correlates with the absence of their desired effect.
yeah, i need a date lol
good job, though
November 17th, 2008 at 7:12 pm
Interesting! Thank for sharing.
November 18th, 2008 at 12:41 am
Spot on! Now if knowing this would only work for me …
November 19th, 2008 at 8:10 pm
Good info and very interesting
November 20th, 2008 at 1:45 am
I always get this signal from women around me but don’t know that meaning. So… now i know
November 20th, 2008 at 6:36 pm
Hehehehe… thank for this tips.
November 21st, 2008 at 8:17 pm
Go job man!
November 24th, 2008 at 4:45 pm
November 28th, 2008 at 11:35 am
woo woo I haven’t done them!
November 28th, 2008 at 11:38 pm
Thanks for the comments. I hope you all like reading this article.
November 29th, 2008 at 7:17 pm
Haah, but everyone like it (about sex art I mean article!)
December 14th, 2008 at 5:53 pm
Yes, they say that non-verbal communication is more powerful and accurate than verbal communication – nice article!
Blessings.
Sincerely,
-Liane Schmidt.
December 30th, 2008 at 7:22 pm
Nice article!
December 31st, 2008 at 12:21 am
everybody is right about their comments, but i do believe that the article is based on statistics and the higher percentage says that the above observations are true…and right, its not for everybody because there’s always exceptions
January 5th, 2009 at 9:32 pm
Love you article!
January 15th, 2009 at 7:08 am
Such an interesting article! I agree with alot of the comments. From reading this ,it would make a woman want to watch her movements next time she’s around a man to make sure the wrong signals are not being sent out or make you want to watch a man and a woman to see if this is happening and if so could there be a connection there or if it’s not happening could there still be a connection there. Thanks for sharing this!
February 15th, 2009 at 11:42 pm
Good information…
February 25th, 2009 at 10:35 am
Nice info!!!
March 13th, 2009 at 2:27 pm
i love to know this topic more…thanks for this tips
March 18th, 2009 at 5:05 pm
Well they are good tips ive seen the eye contact and head tilt so far.Ive looked everywhere to find out what these signals mean to us guys.
April 10th, 2009 at 4:55 pm
Done it al night but he doesn’t get it… frustrating!!!
May 28th, 2009 at 9:56 am
Is spreading her wrinkled pink flaps after being mutilated by a kenyan bat a sign she likes me?
May 28th, 2009 at 11:10 pm
ohh very interesting and thanks for that i think you are exp regarding this. ha ha ha kidding . nice written keep it up
July 2nd, 2009 at 5:36 am
great article and so true
have you done one for men??
August 15th, 2009 at 10:12 am
Great info.Never knew that.
If a woman lay naked with her thighs wide I would lend her my jacket.
August 30th, 2009 at 1:06 pm
Very good article and it has certainly caused some conflict and lots of coments. Sign of interesting topic and good article when it causes this much disagreement according to newspaper editors.Thanks for writing it.
August 21st, 2010 at 2:12 am
Informative and good to know hints / tips but what about us shy guys that always seem to get the your so nice but…line
January 1st, 2011 at 8:56 am
Article is informative but I think men should use there senses to read cues, if any. How about keeping the affection bond between you two intact :
- http://socyberty.com/holidays/what-you-wont-find-at-adult-friend-finder/
January 10th, 2011 at 7:26 pm
looking out for the signs but might have mistaken the intention.
May 25th, 2011 at 7:05 am
its awesome
June 13th, 2011 at 12:17 pm
this is so nice article, I did some of the signal unintentionally but I have to be very careful with my signals otherwise I will send wrong signal to wrong. for example, eye contact with relative.
June 25th, 2011 at 9:29 am
Nice article !.
But, I would like to tell all you guys and girls something
important. ” No amount of looking out for a woman’s sexual
signals can truly , deeply and comprehensively explain what is
going on in her mind “. Believe me !. You’ve got to really know
your woman inside out to understand her !. Women love to play,
tease and seduce . . . and sometimes it’s just for a little fun, to
make themselves feel sexier, feel good, attractive and not
essentially and compulsorily to get laid by any passing tom,
dick or harry !. Making love to a woman whom you know well
makes the experience even more beautiful
.
What I am really trying to say is, all the sexual signs that a
woman gives out or can give out are simply indicators of a
certain amount of interest being shown towards a guy / man
based on how attractive she feels a guy is/ could be at that
moment( at that time, if you are dating). There is no reason to
jump in to conclusions based on simple body movements like
flicking her hair or softly touching herself on her wrist or neck.
If you really want to know how she feels about you, you’ve
got to spend time with her, listen to her more rather than tell
her, look at her straight in her eyes ( the eyes are the windows
of a person’s soul, remember ! ), and always be in tune with
what she is feeling, and how she is feeling
. . .
A small suggestion for all the beautiful, gorgeous ladies out
there as well . . . do try to let your inner personality out while
you are flirting with a guy you like, i.e . . . maintain more eye
contact and use fewer sexual signals . . . believe me, it works
great ! . . . I’ve always felt that sex ( and any strong relationship
between a man and a woman ) always starts playing out in the
inner most part of our selves, i.e. our minds, our souls . . .
Once the souls are connected, the sexual experience can be
out of the world. ( I think the women can understand what I am
trying to say. Right, Ladies ?.) . . .