Attracting Women: Its Not About Bad Boy vs.. Nice Guy, But Being Boring

October 12, 2010 by meistertree  
Published in Women

Even after so much information published on the internet about how to attract women, some men STILL don’t get. In this article, I will give a breakdown about not worrying about fake personas but being boring.


The myth to attracting women is that you have to dress a certain way, look a certain way, act a certain way, or be a certain way. Now I don’t want anyone to think in extremes. I know there’s people who say, “if I don’t have to dress a certain way, then I can wear garbage bags for clothes and still get women.” Every guy has to look at least presentable, but what I mean is that there is no “one way” one must dress to attract women. There is no “one way” to act. Whoever you are, you just need a special ingredient that will attract women, but we’ll get to that later.

Ask yourself this question, “if being a bad boy is all it took to attract women, why do I see alot of boys who ‘look’ bad but never seem to have a girl with them?” You’ve seen the types. About 10 so-called “bad boys” in a group at the mall, trying their best to look hard and stare down every guy that passes them. But, what is missing in the picture? Girls. You don’t see one girl amongst the group. Every bad boy that I ever knew had at least one girl with him when he went out, but in this scenario it’s 10 guys and no girls. To show how fake they really are, when a female or group of females are about to cross paths with them, the guys do NOTHING. As a matter of fact they look intimidated, and look to each other to see what to do.

I’ve seen this more times than I can count, while at the same time I’ve seen a guy who looks like he got his Master’s degree at Harvard with the finest women you could lay your eyes on. What’s the difference? This is where the truth comes into play…


What was the special ingredient I was talking about earlier? NOT BEING BORING. It’s more of a concept than an ingredient. You can try to look and act like that baddest guy around, but if you don’t have humor, if you’re not funny, if you don’t know how to carry on a normal conversation without looking awkward, your “act” won’t get you anywhere. On the other end of the spectrum, you can shower women with gifts, pay them compliments, and basically be a footstool for women, but you will garner no respect, and that kind of behavior is boring anyway.

So how does one become interesting, a.k.a NOT BORING, in the first place. Luckily in this day and age there is a model for anything anybody wants to do. Whatever you want to do or whatever you have thought of, someone else has already done. You have to watch and copy men successful at getting women. It’s really that simple. The hard part is guys who try imitating other men for a week then give up, or men who think they can’t do it, and don’t even attempt to do it. I am not going to give you specific men to emulate because ever man is different and has a different model to copy from. If you say I don’t know who to watch, your lying. ALL men who don’t get women KNOW the men that do.

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One Response to “Attracting Women: Its Not About Bad Boy vs.. Nice Guy, But Being Boring”
  1. Borhan Says:

    Nice paper.
    Thanks for sharing.

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