Aphrodisiacs: How to Get The Man of Your Dreams

October 11, 2010 by Jimmy Shilaho  
Published in Women

Here are aphrodisiacs to help you get the man of your dreams. You may not agree with what I say but I invite you to try this and see how it works. This how to is meant for single adult women on the dating scene who already have their eyes fixed on a man who doesn’t know what he is missing by deciding to stay single.

It is easier to attract a man, easier than most young single women think. You don’t have to do anything extraordinary to be noticed, leave that for television. Just be yourself and most men will love it. Knowing these aphrodisiacs and throwing them in at times may work wonders. Forget oysters, forget those loads of make up, don’t walk naked across the street or jump into his bed too soon. Are you there?

  1. Show some cleavage – You should have guessed this the moment you were born, but just in case you didn’t, let me remind you that men have something for that pair of mammary glands that appears ventrally somewhere on the thorax. It doesn’t matter what size or shape they are, men just can’t stand them!
  2. Show some leg – You must have heard it before too. There is need to show some leg, I don’t mean walking naked or doing something outrageous, but a good pair of smooth legs that are partially clothed may just….how do I put it? Don’t walk naked across the street, but don’t cover yourself like an Eskimo either. Show some leg, not everything, and leave the rest for his imagination.
  3. Smile - It doesn’t mean you go baring your teeth everywhere like fangs ready to bite but then, a smile works wonders almost always. Invest into lots of self confidence, let happiness come from within irrespective of the circumstances. If you smile, remember, the whole world smiles with you. If you cry, you will most probably cry alone.
  4. Learn how to cook – You must have heard that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, well, this still remains true. Investing in some cooking classes and treading those outrageous recipes online might help you nab a man. For heaven’s sake, learn to cook if you can’t for however liberated men are, they still think cooking is a woman’s job!
  5. Cleanliness – You probably think you are clean, but well, we don’t think so. Why? Because most single women distort their natural scent by applying loads of make up that leave them smelling and looking like ghosts. Believe it or not, when it comes to make up, the lesser you apply the better for most men, and I mean most!
  6. Appear weak and vulnerable – Despite feminism having injected the wrong ideas about equity or equality into your head, play weak and vulnerable and men love it. Don’t appear very strong willed, men still prize women who need a shoulder to lean on. If you appear too strong and independent, if you appear man-like, be sure he will vamoose into thin air. Don’t defend your opinions vociferously as if you are in a philosophy class, he will run away faster than lightening.
  7. Abstinence from sex – You probably have the wrong ideas about this. Never think for one moment that sleeping with him will set you on a smooth ride to his heart. On the contrary, withholding sex for longer works wonders. If you give in too soon, you lose your best kept secret. What then should you do? Hold onto that secret card for as long as you can. A man who disappears into thin air because you couldn’t give in to his demands is not worth grieving over.
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21 Responses to “Aphrodisiacs: How to Get The Man of Your Dreams”

    TRUE, NUMBER TEN especially. i mean i tell woman that sex is their bargaining power. if you give away sex then you have nothing more to offer him. keep it as long as you can. get him to invest in you.. not just financially but emotionally before you give in to him. hygiene is also very important

  2. Michal Dorcak Says:

    Very good advice. Combining these things would certainly work on me, especially 1., 3., 5. and 6. You are absolutely right about the maku up. After all, pile of paint really isn’t as attractive as the real face (most of the time :) .

  3. LoveDoctor Says:

    This is excellent advice doc. Good job!

  4. GodsGrace Says:

    Nice Tips

  5. ashan1614 Says:

    I suppose this one is not really meant for me as I am only weeks away from being 25 years married…. HA, HA! But I’ve never walked around naked or put on loads of make-up to get attention. Self-confidence and a smile work wonders.

  6. Raj the Tora Says:

    Very true indeed, good smile makes up for lesser makeup, cleanliness works wonders than costly jewelry! Very nice tips. I totally agree with points no. 1 & 2 too Jimmy. It can be such a distractor, especially in meetings :)

  7. Ethics0006 Says:

    Nice Post

  8. Eric Damato Says:

    very nice indeed, however I am going to say this. What this list incites is that true love comes first from lust, whether it be from cleavage or if it be come from leg, the fact it, it is still lust. This is not the way of true love. This is also just adding more fuel to the fire that most men struggle with. To be honest with you, I find women who pour out their cleavage to be pukefully sickening. I mean is your personality so bad that you need milk jugs just to get his attention? Grow up!. A woman’s body is sacred and special and those most intimate parts should only be shown to the one man she loves and not to incite looks from other men so as to spark jealousy. Love has nothing to do with Aphrodisiacs, all showing flesh does is incite men to love for the wrong reasons. You know the true Aphrodisiac? Personality, a nice smile, bright shiny eyes, and a heart and soul reserved for God. That is the only woman I need…and God bless me, I have her already.

  9. J Anderson Says:

    Good Post.

  10. albert1jemi Says:

    beatifully written

  11. giftarist Says:

    The essential 10 for women I believe. Nice, humorous post.

  12. lapasan Says:

    Women should take note of this suggestions. He he

  13. LCM Linda Says:

    Interesting topic. Who is she in the photo? Very beautiful. Thanks for sharing.

  14. Likha Says:

    Amusing post but has some truth to it.

  15. wonder Says:

    Interesting and amusing, with some traditional truth that still exist.
    You too are amused at some I guess.

  16. Rehoboth Says:

    $- nice-$

  17. clandestinef Says:

    I love this article. Very interesting and catching….

  18. Starpisces Says:

    I agree with Eric’s statement “I find women who pour out their cleavage to be pukefully sickening”, I am not a man, I don’t know, but when I see women wear like that, I will think she’s too vain (sorry, not offence).
    If I am a man, I will prefer 3, 5, 7, and for no. 4 will be good but no good also nevermind can learn slowly (I say that because I am lousy in cooking, haha)
    If I am a man, I will not choose 1 & 2, but if I’m a man, I may like, who knows.
    However, from what I understand about you, you are someone who value true love, I am very sure.

  19. TeriAMiller Says:

    LOL I should write my own tips on this :p

  20. sophy Says:

    honestly this post is excellent,especially for a matured woman like me who needs the right kind of man for her life.whenever i see woman exposing her cleavege i think she is battling with insecurity so she need to be noticed.I also agree with sex starving a man you think is interesting in you to find out exactly what he want from you.If eventaully it worked out with the both a reasonably man will respect you a lot for that.I cant conclude without commenting on cleaningness and heavy make up.The former is more impotant to me than the latter.

  21. yes me Says:

    nice one for the girls cheers

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