11 Signs You Should Ditch Your Boyfriend

January 2, 2011 by redtorch92873  
Published in Women

When we enter into a relationship and accept the love of a man, it is always with the hope that he’s the one we’ll be spending our lifetime with. However, most of the time, it turns out that he’s not the one at all. So, do you have to spend years with him in order for you to discover that he’s not the one? Or do you zoom in on some proven hints and signs that he’s definitely the one so you won’t waste your time having to figure it out yourself? As it has been said again and again, God allow us to meet the wrong ones so that when we finally meet the one, we would be able to ascertain the different. So, here are some signs for women to watch out in a relationship, for it definitely obligatory to dump your man.

When we enter into a relationship and accept the love of a man, it is always with the hope that he’s the one we’ll be spending our lifetime with. Finding a boyfriend material male, you easily jump into the relationship. However, most of the time, it turns out that he’s not the one at all. So, do you have to spend years with him in order for you to discover that he’s not the one? Or do you zoom in on some proven hints and signs that he’s definitely the one so you won’t waste your time having to figure it out yourself? As it has been said again and again, God allow us to meet the wrong ones so that when we finally meet the one, we would be able to ascertain the different. So, here are some signs for women to watch out in a relationship, for it definitely obligatory to dump your man. May God bless the man.

1.    You find out that he’s cheating on you all along. He still calls other girls and ask them out for a date and telling them not to leak out the invitation. What’s more he calls other girls in your workplace, who is known to you and the news gets around to you that he’s expressing his lust for other girls.

2.    He has more time playing cards or going out with his friends than spend time with you.

3.    He only remembers to call you when he needs you to do something for him or if he wants something from you.

4.    He doesn’t want to be seen with you in public, walking so far behind you when you go out that he seems like more your bodyguard than your boyfriend.

5.    He believes that men should be allowed to play games even when they’re in a committed relationship, saying it’s man’s nature to be polygamous. Nevertheless, women are strictly not allowed to engage in such for it’s completely taboo and downright  shameful and unpardonable for women to have another man other than her husband or partner.

6.    He doesn’t give you anything, even gifts on special occasions and yet, expects you to shower him with gifts every time.

7.    He makes fun of you in front of his friends and  badmouths you in front of his colleagues and friends.

8.    He gets over jealous and suspicious every time you go out of town, monitoring you always and accusing you of two-timing him.

9.    He’s always lying to you, even in seemingly unimportant matters. Even with evidence, he never admits to the truth and still bent on lying to you, despite glaring evidence.

10. He doesn’t talk about your relationship, doesn’t answer when you ask him of future plans and don’t seem to have plans of including you in his future.

11. When you find out  that your boyfriend is just using you as a means to alleviate his present condition, never really having any real feelings nor care for you.

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2 Responses to “11 Signs You Should Ditch Your Boyfriend”
  1. papaleng Says:

    A must read for girls. Your observations are very true.

  2. Judy Sheldon Says:

    Very good tips here. We need to think not only with our hearts, but with our heads.


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