10 Ways to Become a Better Women

July 23, 2009 by CRYSTAL EVANS  
Published in Women

There are series of characteristics that defines the quintessential women. here are some hints as to how to achieve that level of self optimality.

No one has to settle for the mediocre or substandard status that we currently hold in life. It is up to every individual to strive to improve their own existence whether it is aesthetically, financially and socially. The enhancement, elevation and restoration of our self optimality should be our responsibility and utmost priority.

 Here are a few tips that I have learned and have decided to share with you

Be optimistic.

No one can underestimate or even underrate the importance of introspection and optimism. Being positive about life, expectations, endeavours and even failures and disappointments enhances your mood and your over all mental well being.  A mentally healthy person with a positive outlook is more likely to be successful, grasp opportunities and have a purpose driven life.  Confidence is the key to success. It is stated that a confident person is more likely to win a race even though he may be slower in speed than his competitors. A man whose is deluge with self doubt is more likely to lose the race before he has begun. Confidence and optimism is best achieved with healthy thoughts, great aspirations and goal reaffirmation. On the other hand over confidence may lead to inadequacy in areas as individuals become conceited on rely on self belie than on the merit of hard work and therefore fail their tasks in life.   

Strive for a purpose driven life.

Keep your goals in mind, dream high dreams and so you shall become. You become doubtful and pessimistic when you lose sight of your goals. Always have a goal in mind it makes rule of success number one a little easier.  Having goals keeps you occupied and you are less likely to waste time on inanities and unproductive ventures.   Know what you want, where you need to be and how you plan to get there. Having a map of your life makes decision making easier and sets you apart from the rest.  Don’t be like the ship without a sail that the wind tossed where it may.  Occasionally be prepared for the surprises that life will throw at you. Even though you have your map and your purpose, life will careen accidents at you that will cause you to derail from your goals and purpose. Brush yourself off, heal the wounds and get back on track.

Forgive and try and forget

One will very much find out that synthesizing a structured and promising future becomes more efficient and possible when one is able to go beyond pass mistakes, blunders and hurts precipitated by others. It is true that hanging on to the past inhibits your ability to see the opportunities in the present, plan successfully and ever get further than the history. The past becomes your present as you relive pains, disappointment and hurt over and over again every day.  I will never say forget the past as it often serves as the impulsion that one needs for the future. Let your pass be a stepping stone instead of a stumbling block. Prove to those that hurt you that you are a far better human being than they ever were and will ever become.  Let go and be free. Embrace the present, hope for the future and be the best you can be. You make history every day.  Start making it, instead of reliving it. Make some great memories today. Start making history right now that you are going to enjoy tomorrow.

11
Liked it
11 Responses to “10 Ways to Become a Better Women”
  1. CRYSTAL EVANS Says:

    I AM WHO I AM. NO WEAPON THAT FORMS AGAINST ME SHALL PROSPER AND VERY TONGUE THAT RISE UP AGAINST I SHALL BE CONDEMNED! MY TALENT HAS NO BOUNDARIES!

  2. fishfry aka Elizabeth Figueroa Says:

    Fantastic,, you are so correct, and you really know how to help empower a women, This is a great article to help those who are feeling down, We all have those traits we just need to fortify them

  3. CRYSTAL EVANS Says:

    thank u very much elizabeth! spread the word! thanks honey! love your articles too

  4. asdf Says:

    dsadaa

  5. CHAN LEE PENG Says:

    Very informative and useful! Thanks!

  6. selfesteem Says:

    Take time each day to notice the positive things in your life, and be patient with yourself. In this way you will dramatically increase your self esteem. By allowing yourself to make mistakes, and focus on what you have acheived, you will get much further in life.Self Esteem Affirmations

  7. Angela Says:

    I read some of your articles this morning. I wish you all the success in life. I will revisit your articles and do some more reading as the months go by.

    Thanks for the readings.

  8. shawntay Says:

    I googled “how to become A better woman” and found this article… priceless!!! Thank you soooooooo much, you’d be amazed how you encouraged me… A 26 year old, single, working mother of 1 who at this very moment is trying to find out who I am. Thank you. :)

  9. CRYSTAL EVANS Says:

    THANKS VERY MUCH! I TRY TO SHARE THE TIDBITS OF KNOWLEDGE THAT I ACCUMULATE ON LIFE’S JOURNEY!!!

  10. ms t Says:

    I so needed to hear, see, and feel this. It sounds crazy but at 26 I’m learning a lot about me.

  11. ms t Says:

    I so needed to hear, see, and feel this. It sounds crazy but at 26 I\’m learning a lot about me.


Tell us what you're thinking...

comments powered by Disqus