10 Ways on How to Deal with an Unreasonable Person

1. Smile at her. It might be the only sunshine she sees all the day.

2. Tell her all the beautiful things in life. And to always look at the brighter side of things. Those that are found at the dark side are not visible, so they are useless. So why give time about them?

3. Remind her about the words found in the Bible.

4. Help her when she needs it. If you can take it. If not, ask somebody to do it for you. Char.

5. Do not speak negative things against her. She will feel uglier and bitter with that.

6. Appreciate her if she has done something nice. It seldom happens but you have to give her praise so that she will do nicer things in the next situation.

7. Do not take her words seriously, it can only ruin your beautiful day. I have just recovered actually. Lol.

8. Do good to her all the time even in her wildest state. But don’t go nearer to avoid unexpected things to happen. She’s unpredictable.

9. If she is already abusing your kindness, give her a lesson. Do a strike.

10. Pray for her. That she maybe able to accept reality. That she can never be on top if she is not qualified. I mean, if it is not for her she can’t acquire it with just a blink of an eye. It requires a million years of sacrifices. In other words it’s “impossible”. And most of all, love her. Maybe she longed for compassion and care that she have never experienced.

My heart speaks all those phrases for her. I know, that the best time to forgive is now but my ego that has been ambushed by her envy can’t. Maybe not now, as the saying goes, “Time heals all wounds.” Anyway, at least, the hatred’s gone. I am thankful to those who revealed that she is a certified unreasonable. It helps me feel calm. It made me realize too that mine was just a small amount compared to my other colleagues experiences. But what remains is hurt instead of anger.