Why Do Relationships And Marriages Fail? Top 15 Reasons
January 31, 2011 by vijayanths
Published in Relationships
Love makes the world beautiful and gives meaning to human life. Every man and woman longs to be loved. A relationship always starts off so well but after a period of time, it fails miserably. They may be still living together for some reason or other but it is not a successful relationship altogether. Why do relationships fail? What are the main reasons for relationships to fail? Please read more….
1.Choosing the wrong partner: You should never choose your partner in a hurry. Love at first sight may prove good only for a very few people. Love at first sight most often proves to be lust and not love. Therefore, you have to choose the right partner without haste. Before choosing your right partner, you need to know what exactly you want in your partner? What are your goals? Your interests? How you want to live and enjoy life? What are his/her goals and interests? Do you know what does your partner want from you? You should know their goals, interests, ambitions etc. Long story short, you should check whether you are compatible with your potential partner or not.
2. Entering into a relationship with a wrong attitude: These days most couples enter into a relationship expecting it to last for a few years and not for the lifetime. They don’t seem to have the ’strong desire’ to make the relationship to last for ever. Have you ever thought why in India, most relationships are successful and last lifelong? They enter into a marriage with a strong belief that it is a permanent bond between the man and woman. They never ever think of getting separated, whatever difficulties they may face in their married life. So, therefore the lack of the strong desire to make the relationship last for lifetime is one of the biggest reasons for a relationship to fail. To put it in a simpler way, enter into a relationships with the right attitude that it’s a permanent affair whatsoever.
3. Fail to keep the attraction levels high: During the initial period of a relationship both the man and the woman take great efforts to attract each other. But when they start living together, they take their partners for granted. May be, they think, they have already won the race and there is nothing more to achieve. But the fact of the matter is, you should remain attractive to your partner till the end. So even when you are living together, keep the attraction levels high always.
4. Lack of trust: Trust plays a big role in a relationship. If you are always suspicious about your partner, the relationship will become weaker and weaker over time and break up one day.
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January 31st, 2011 at 2:27 am
This is so true, but it is difficult to keep up with all these things in a relationship. They have to come naturally.
Christine
January 31st, 2011 at 2:47 am
well said, Christine Ramsay , some people are naturally having these qualities. They are blessed.LOL.
January 31st, 2011 at 3:01 am
I agree with all your points. Relationship is very complicated and fragile. No relationship is perfect, we have to put an extra effort to let it grow and survive.
January 31st, 2011 at 3:26 am
very well said Agasthya , thanks.
January 31st, 2011 at 3:39 am
Very informative and useful stuff.
January 31st, 2011 at 3:43 am
It’s amazing any relationships work isn’t it? *Grins* Fantastic post, keep up the hard work!
January 31st, 2011 at 4:05 am
hi, guraynsj thanks for your response.
January 31st, 2011 at 4:05 am
hi, anndavey650, thanks for the response.
January 31st, 2011 at 4:13 am
well informed
January 31st, 2011 at 6:56 am
I agree these tips will help one attain good long relationships, but it is easier than done. Why? Because of Pride.
January 31st, 2011 at 7:07 am
Thanks CHIPMUNK for your comment.
January 31st, 2011 at 7:08 am
Good advice and very well written, many thanks.
January 31st, 2011 at 7:10 am
well said, papleng, pride is the biggest killer of relationship.
January 31st, 2011 at 7:11 am
thanks Cinders for your response.
January 31st, 2011 at 7:55 am
yeah.. right..
January 31st, 2011 at 8:06 am
thanks solidadah for the response.
January 31st, 2011 at 9:06 am
Awesome share These tips should help those seeking a long relationship.
January 31st, 2011 at 9:20 am
wow, that is quite a list. All really good points. Relationships are hard work, but worth it
January 31st, 2011 at 9:47 am
so true. so very true. i do not know what else you don’t mention here.
Bad thing is I am quite guilty at some of those. grrrr…
January 31st, 2011 at 10:40 am
hi, The Quail 1957 , thanks for the response.
January 31st, 2011 at 10:41 am
yes, Wizard Brown it is hard work but worth as you said, thanks.
January 31st, 2011 at 10:42 am
hi, Franklin, same with me too.grrrrrrrrrrr,lol.
January 31st, 2011 at 11:08 am
its hard work and difficult make a relationship work but is ones of the most beutiful things, be in love
January 31st, 2011 at 11:19 am
Good.
January 31st, 2011 at 11:21 am
hi, robertito thanks for the response.
January 31st, 2011 at 11:24 am
thanks Hendrik for your comment.
January 31st, 2011 at 11:55 am
great share
SK
January 31st, 2011 at 11:58 am
nice share
January 31st, 2011 at 12:32 pm
thank you sunnykumar786 for the comment.
January 31st, 2011 at 12:33 pm
hi, jemialbert thanks for the response.
January 31st, 2011 at 2:16 pm
Agree!! good share.
January 31st, 2011 at 3:00 pm
I really enjoyed this article. Thanks so much.
January 31st, 2011 at 9:35 pm
nice to know about these
January 31st, 2011 at 10:15 pm
thanks rgjimenez for your response.
January 31st, 2011 at 10:16 pm
hi, LJ Spain thanks for responding.
January 31st, 2011 at 10:17 pm
hi, mohammednihal96 , thanks for responding.
February 1st, 2011 at 5:07 am
Ego comes in between, we should learn to manage it—not easy.An excellent post.
February 1st, 2011 at 5:10 am
yes, wonder, ego is a big reason for break up in a relationship, thanks.
February 6th, 2011 at 2:34 am
hey great one yaar…..
Nice artilce..
February 6th, 2011 at 10:53 am
thanks chandru for the comment.
February 7th, 2011 at 12:16 am
Nice article, very relevant and interesting.
February 7th, 2011 at 12:50 am
thanks wizgem8 for your compliment.
February 10th, 2011 at 6:14 am
Great Article. Full marks to you vijayanth.
February 10th, 2011 at 7:54 am
Thanks ganesh for your comment.
February 12th, 2011 at 1:58 am
i totally agree.
February 17th, 2011 at 2:07 am
Fantastic article. Good work.
February 17th, 2011 at 2:31 am
Thanks Lakshmi for your response.
February 26th, 2011 at 9:46 am
Great article.
February 26th, 2011 at 12:11 pm
hi, jemialbert, thanks for the response.
February 26th, 2011 at 12:35 pm
Thanks Franklin for your comment.
March 2nd, 2011 at 8:10 pm
=( may be that explains why i havent found the right one… ?
March 3rd, 2011 at 12:12 am
Good luck Rinoa for finding the right one soon.
March 6th, 2011 at 11:54 pm
Thanks for sharing
March 13th, 2011 at 10:51 am
Fantastic article Vijayanth.
March 20th, 2011 at 3:03 pm
Excellent article.
May 21st, 2011 at 6:09 am
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October 21st, 2012 at 1:22 pm
I have worked on my relationship, but he has not, I have forgiven for affair(s), fraudulent checks, lieing, domestic violence, being ignored, snapped at yelled at. and so much more. you can only forgive so much and be treated disrespectfully so many times. His attitude has made him go through over 35 jobs in 20 years, because of his attitude(that he says he does not have), he says he does not care, that people need to get over it.