When He Cheats: Don’t Bother Trying to Find Out What The Other Woman Looks Like
Women try as much as possible to find out what the other woman looks like, some worry about it all night long while others when cheated upon try to scratch the other woman’s face or scald it in a bid to stop their man’s cheating. Wrong, cheating has very little to do with looks. Men may be attracted or distracted by very many other factors other than looks.
When women become victims of cheating, the first thing they think of is getting to know what the other woman looks like. Many have been in this position before and even wondered what their hubby or boyfriend saw in the other woman. Well, looks have very little to do with cheating.
Angelina Jolie looks can not prevent your man from cheating on you
A man will cheat on you whether you have Angelina Jolie looks or not, a man will still cheat on you whether you look like a hot model or not, simply because looks are not everything. Your looks may determine the number of dates you get, your looks may determine your attraction of a man but when it comes to keeping a man, holding onto him or having a lasting relationship, looks come a cropper.
Do not scratch her face or pour hot water on her for your man will love her even more
When he cheats on you, don’t bother looking for the other woman, don’t bother attempting to scratch her face or pour hot water on her face thinking it is what stole your man away from you. First, this reaction may earn you a jail sentence. Second, your man may actually love her even more when she is scalded as a result of your actions!
Support your man and invite the other woman to share your man!
Instead of fighting for the good for nothing man, simply support your man’s decision to cheat, admit that you haven’t been very good to him and deserved to be cheated on. Invite the other woman into sharing your man. In the few cases I have known in which the victim did this, guilt ended the cheating and brought the estranged partners together.
Women love the idea of hurting each other and knowing it
Reacting violently only helps to fuel the relationship for women love the idea of hurting each other, they like the idea of not only having succeeded in getting another woman’s husband or boyfriend but also fueling anger and hatred that boils down to unnecessary cat fights! Prevent this by acting maturely.
Ignore them as much as you can
The least you should do is ignore them. Yes, you heard me, the least you should do is to ignore the love birds, but at least make sure they know that you know but seem not to care. The guilt of being ignored may actually make them taunt you even more, but it may also make them realize that it won’t work!
Looks are not everything
While it is important for a woman not to neglect her looks, looking your best alone, remaining beautiful all the time may not guarantee you a happy relationship. Get to know things that appeal to your loved one, get to know what holds the two of you together, and work on those and don’t bank on your hot looks. The other woman may have the appearance of your inner sole but……