What to Do If You’re in Love with a Married Man

The point of this article is to tell you the answer is NO, and that continuing to be in a relationship with a married man will only HURT you a lot, both consciously and unconsciously, psychologically, spiritually and physically.

For one, let us scrutinize and examine who and what is a man who married a woman and stays married with her but haves sex with a young girl and lets her hope and believe that he loves him and that that love will be worth something in her life.

YOU HAVE TO KNOW AND REALIZE THAT A MARRIED GUY WHO HAS AN AFFAIR  IS A VERY SELFISH, INSECURE AND NARCISSISTIC PERSON.

The harsh truth is,even if he himself does not realize it, he is not really in love with you or his wife, he is in love with himself. A married guy who has an affair is a very ugly guy and you are there to make him feel young and attractive and wanted again, you give him a renewed feeling of importance. Of course he does not deserve that because he is a parasite of society and young girls are his host. More often than not, he has a lot of insecurities stemming from where comes where. He thinks he is worth putting you to jail and ruining your reputation or even your life, all for his pleasure. All the wrong things can happen to you and he does not care. What he cares about is you give him pleasure but a lot of dangerous things can even happen to you while doing that, isn’t that the worst form of ignorance? You have to accept that he is not genuinely concerned of your worth as a woman and as a person.

TRUE LOVE WILL NEVER GIVE YOU PAIN.

You have to know and accept that no matter what, he is cheating on you too and hurting you. He goes home and is having sex with his wife. And even if he’s not, chances are, he’s sleeping with and flirting with other girls too. True love will never put you into that kind of situation.

Being dragged into an affair with a married person is a form of emotional abuse. You develop very real feelings and attachment for a guy who is lying to himself and is lying to you. You will be lied to a lot. You are being used for a fantasy this selfish person wants to fulfill while you find yourself losing your love for yourself and losing the love of other people who truly love you. Spending time with him and dating him exclusively will deprive you of that someone who will choose you above the rest and even marry you. You are the victim. Love is being used as a justification for robbing you of your self-respect and dignity, but the truth is, love never does that to you.

What hurts even more, is when the moment of truth comes out, he may deny even falling in love you and still choose to remain with his wife. You don’t have to look at Tiger Woods’ Apology video on youtube over and over again for you to realize what he did to all those porn stars he’s had an affair with. What could be worse than getting dumped by an ugly jerk?

SO WHAT DO YOU DO IF YOU’RE IN LOVE WITH A MARRIED GUY?

Ask him to leave or even poison his wife if he wants to and if he can’t do that, get the hell out. Move to another country where can’t find you. Just don’t let him take away your ever precious and all important self-esteem.