What Does The Amount of Money He Spends on You Say About His Feelings?

September 16, 2010 by CRYSTAL EVANS  
Published in Relationships

There are men who will invest in your education by sending you to school not because of the love he has for you but how it makes him feel. He feels like a responsible man, taking care of his property and responsibilities. It makes him feel powerful and worthwhile to know that a younger woman is depending on him for subsistence.

         It’s a popular confounded notion among Jamaican women that you determine how a man feels about you by the amount of cash he spends on you during the courting period or when you are in a relationship.  

             If your man spends thousands of dollars on you, it means he loves you or is it a safe guarantee to get in your panty

     If a man thinks you are a ten then he will be more inclined to treat you nice and to give you the world since you are a rare gem and he does not want to lose you.  If he thinks you are a two, he could not care less whether you leave or stay.

            Women will tell you that there are men who will spend any amount of money just to have sex with you.  He doesn’t love you and he may not want a relationship but it may be one of his values to spend money on women.  He may be spending money on you and buying gifts in order to soften the blow when he dumps you.  Jamaican men know that women want money and they attempt to get women to sleep with them by offering them money.  

                   Take for instance men who have an abundant amount of money will not think losing a few thousand dollars as bankruptcy.     They will be more inclined to spend money lavishly on a woman without thinking of the financial depletion they will suffer.    And when a man treats you right by spending money on you, he is also setting up the stage for his comeback just in case he leaves you. You will remember how good he was to you and therefore you will not be quick to label him undesirable and dishonorable. You will be more inclined to take him back because he spends a lot on you!  

             Some women may even fight to keep the relationship intact and are often confuse when a man walks away after spending that amount of money. They assume that the man must be interested in her but he was merely doing what he needs to do in order to convince her to sleep with him.

                  There are men who will invest in your education by sending you to school not because of the love he has for you but how it makes him feel. He feels like a responsible man, taking care of his property and responsibilities. It makes him feel powerful and worthwhile to know that a younger woman is depending on him for subsistence. These are the men that threatened to kill a woman if she leaves him.  It’s not about being generous and philanthropic, it’s a display of ego and it is that egoism that will cost a woman her life if she decides to leave the man that is spending a lot of money on her.

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