Top 10 Signs You Should Dump Your Boyfriend

October 10, 2010 by Cloudydays
Published in Relationships

10 things you should look out for in your relationship. Should you go on with this person or is it just no longer working out?

There comes a time in every relationship where you stop and evaluate how things are going. Usually it’s just to reflect on how well things are going but unfortunately, break-ups also result from these times. You have to think about your relationship from a third person view and see how you and your partner are getting along so far. Do you need to make some changes? Have you already tried, with no luck? Perhaps it’s time to make a final decision in your relationship. Maybe you just don’t want to though, and want to think about it a little more. Lots of times, people feel lonely and empty inside but don’t know why. Perhaps you should look at the signs below to see if anything matches your partner, it may explain any bumps that may be occurring in your relationship. Here are 10 signs you should dump your boyfriend.

1. Your Feelings no Longer Matter

This is a very obvious thing to look out for. If for some reason he suddenly seems to be paying zero attention to your feelings it’s time to opt out. If he doesn’t care about your feelings then why are you dating him? You can find a guy who cares about you, it just takes some patience and some consideration. The only exception is if you’re dating around just to date around and not looking for a serious relationship. You can tell if your partner has stopped to care about you easily. If you have a bad day, he may not ask about it, or you may probe him to ask about it by saying something like, “I had a bad day” and he may just reply “Okay.” or something less considerate. If he doesn’t take the time to stop what he’s doing and look into your eyes and ask, “What happened?” then he doesn’t care. Easy sign. But for the sake of the guy, ask him if something is wrong if he doesn’t seem to care about you. If you’ve been in a relationship with this guy for a very long time, chances are that he might going through something like a mid-age crisis. Work out things together, especially if you’ve been together for a long time.