Three Ways to Know He’s Crushing on You

September 21, 2009 by Antuan Melvin  
Published in Relationships

I’m sure that every lady has had that moment when.

There are many ways to tell that a man is attracted to you.  These can be noticed through the study of many factors, such as their posture, voice, choice of words, body language, and other small details.

Eye Contact

This all begins back in the day, when we were all children and still young and in the ages when boys were “icky” and girls had “cooties.”  People were shy of their emotions and unable to explain or interpret them.  Though we all began to grow past and out of this small habit, one thing remained, which was being shy.  This shyness is what blocks a man that is Secretly crushing on you from being able to look at you in the eye, and you turn around and catch him.  Instead, as soon as you look back, he will most likely turn around.

Defensive Behavior

Have you ever noticed that one of your male friends tends to hang around a little more than necessary?  Does he often offer to walk/drive you home, to class, or to work?  This, and other additional details, is a sign of feelings of care and consideration.  The man obviously wants to see that you get to and from your destinations safely.

Speech

Normally when a guy is talking to his (male) friends his speech seems regular, or flowing in a smooth manner, no stuttering or anything.  However, men tend to get nervous with female company that they are not accustomed to.  This nervousness is greatly amplified when there is an attraction around, and it may seem like everything comes out in a burst of air, or in multiple edited thoughts and all!

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  1. unown971 Says:

    Great article!


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