The Secret of a Good Relationship
With 25 years of marriage with Dr. Mehmet Oz and five best sellers of health under your belt, you know Lisa Oz anything about how to have a healthy relationship. In this case, use the wisdom of some of the most common problems that arise.
When you meet a new guy
You’ve heard a million times before, but it’s true: The most important thing you can do on a date to be yourself. And, unfortunately, is easier said than done. "I was on several occasions where I tried to be what the guy wanted," says Lisa of her life before Oz. It can be difficult to accept, but if you blow your favorite Rock Party room for him or say a few little white lies to impress, prepare an accident. Sorry!
Be realistic about relationships is dishonest with themselves. “When it comes to guys, you realize that what you see is what you get,” he said. Not that men never change, but will not change the way you want. So if you are waiting for his girlfriend, if not perfect) to find a career less demanding b) cut off all contact with her ex-boyfriends or c) sell the apartment and move to your town, it’s time to accept for what it is exactly now and decide if you can work with.
When you are engaged, but not NOK prepayment
Lisa’s motto is “If you want an interesting sex life, start with the part of life.” We suggest replaying the way he behaved when we started dating. Little things like getting dressed when you go to dinner and to act as you would on a day keeps the relationship fun. And do not forget to link. By sending a text sexy, play each other’s feet or suggestive whisper in your ear, keep your chemistry until they become very hot sex. It is also wise to plan some dates only go on a prolonged or playing tennis against another pair. Sweating does not seem romantic, but it will keep the blood pumping and make you feel more connected to your body – it will pay off when you’re naked.
When you are fully committed … and boring
After several years together, even the best relationships start to cool slightly. In the same way people tend to focus on all the bad news (as a massive oil spills in place for an upswing in the economy) is very easy to get involved in things like his uncle, not (like taking a dance fucking popped the question above ). “Instead of being negative, focus on being grateful for all the good things in your relationship,” says Lisa.
Of course, the best way to keep things warm for more than half of your partner (you). Take a foreign language class or start a crafts Etsy.com biz. It is very simple: If you do interesting things, will keep you well.
When finally over
We give you full permission to put in the face of his ex-girlfriend on a goals and start working with a large one (not one) on the rebound, but only for a few weeks. After that you must leave your relationship baggage and start doing some serious questions about what was wrong. “If you have not worked on the problems with past relationships, attract the same type of person can have the same problems in their relationship following,” says Lisa. Start with what you caught the boy in the first place and think again about all the things that make you happy. And we do not like that, it is also important to ask how a bride could have been better. Find out what went wrong, he will not lose (or hate), his former minor, but take a lot closer to finding the right person.