The Jamaican Man Who Dumps You Whenever He Meet S a New Girl

February 22, 2011 by CRYSTAL EVANS  
Published in Relationships

He comes back to reinvestigate and while he waits for the next new girlfriend that will fit the script. There is absolutely nothing wrong with what John needs from the relationship, it is just that he needs to realize that his woman has different priorities. Their value system is completely different and therefore what he thinks is repugnant, she considers fun and normative.

The Jamaican man who dumps you whenever he meet s a new girl!

          Jackie is very much in love with john but does not think John returns her affection. It appears that whenever John meets a new girl, he dumps Jackie and moves his new beau into his house. When he discovers that his new girlfriend is not satisfying his needs or she is not all that he anticipated, he dumps her and insist often using coercion and abuse that Jackie takes him back.

      Jackie takes him back and two months later, he dumps her and moves on with a next girl.  The cycle continues until Jackie can’t take it anymore and breaks down in front of my beau one morning at our apartment.

         I have learnt that its not that John does not love Jackie, he does yet he hates what she represents. He loathes her alcoholism and smoking along with raunchy behavior. He thinks that Jackie is wasting her life and could do a far better job with her time than gossiping with women who she is better than.

        Jackie does not understand that John keeps leaving her because she falls short of his ideal girl. He thinks that with each new girl he can show her what he needs in a relationship and that he has been given an opportunity to motor his life into the direction that he wants. The new girl disappoints him and he is back to Jackie trying once again to make her into the woman that he wants and thinks she can be.

           He comes back to reinvestigate and while he waits for the next new girlfriend that will fit the script.  There is absolutely nothing wrong with what John needs from the relationship, it is just that he needs to realize that his woman has different priorities. Their value system is completely different and therefore what he thinks is repugnant, she considers fun and normative.

            Jackie must concede that John doesn’t want her and she is his fall back girl. Therefore just in case his new girlfriend doesn’t work out, he crawls or bulldozes his way back into her life. When he finds a girl that he loves and who represents the ideals in his head, he will dump Jackie for good! she cant continue this yo-yo relationship and she needs a partner that will love her unconditionally and not dump her once he thinks he has met his genuine type of girl.  The abuse and coercion should stop. Alcoholism and Smoking are not attractive or healthy habits but there are men who have little problem with a woman doing either and sometimes it is best that you find a partner that is compatible and comfortable with your lifestyle.

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