Text Flirting 101 for Ladies

December 1, 2009 by xtine  
Published in Relationships

Text flirting not only reconnects you with the hottie you just met or help you butter up a prospective date; a few clicks on your cell phone keypad can also take an existing so-so acquaintance to romantic heights or let you get it on with your boylet de jour anytime, anywhere.

In case you didn’t get the message texting is the new flirting. Finally, no more verbal fumblings, sufocating dead air, or worse, face-to-face rejection! With just several cleverly punched keys, tech-savvy women can achieve the following: snare prospective mates without wasting time and effort on dreadfully awkward first dates, gain control by choosing whether to respond to a potential hookup partner or avoid a pesky hopeful, and enjoy newfound confidence (get away with messages that can only make you blush in person).

Text flirting not only reconnects you with the hottie you just met or help you butter up a prospective date; a few clicks on your cell phone keypad can also take an existing so-so acquaintance to romantic heights or let you get it on with your boylet de jour anytime, anywhere.

Truthfully, not all of us were born with naturally flirty digits. But, textually-challenged chicks need not worry. Below are foolproof text flirting tactics that allow you to understand SMS flirting basics as well as guides in composing come-hither text notes that are sure to bombard our phone inbox with amorous comebacks.

THE INTRO: After your first meeting…

SEND: “Hi. How are you? What are you doing?”

-It’s simple, more direct and more sincere. Vary the composition based on how long you’ve known the guy, but save your sexy innuendos for later. At this early stage, they may actually repel, rather than attract, a current prospect. Keep it light girl!

*Observe the “Two Day Rule” : After you meet someone you like, make sure to text them within two days so you’re still fresh on their mind.

*If he replies, don’t text back ASAP : It’s a sad fact of the text flirting game that a quick comeback always spells “toooo eager.” So, sit on your itchy digits for at least half an hour (okay, 15 minutes if you cant take it!) before hitting “SEND”.

*He doesn’t respond? MOVE ON! : A guy who doesn’t respond ASAP to a woman’s message is a fool. But, technology sucks sometimes, so don’t think too much when he doesn’t. When he gets it, he’ll apologize for the late reply.  If you happen to get a two-days-late “Im Ok” reply with no fun update, question, or apology? Trash the message and delete the sender!

ELICIT REACTION: Keep the texts coming…

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15 Responses to “Text Flirting 101 for Ladies”
  1. abhishek40914 Says:

    AMAZING FACTS!!! thanks for sharing ;)

  2. Midie Says:

    Very helpful article. Thank you.

  3. mikky webs Says:

    Cool and lovely idea here. I understand you lie writing about relationship. Keep it up.

  4. Darla Beck Says:

    Interesting article.

  5. Peter Cimino Says:

    Interesting tips.

  6. Sourav Says:

    Keep it up!

  7. diamondpoet Says:

    Interesting article, thanks for sharing.

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  9. wonder Says:

    Quite interesting.

  10. AlmaG Says:

    Great on Christine although I’m not a fan of texting or having textmates I did enjoy reading this :)

  11. B. Sting Says:

    flippant, friendly and funny–
    yes, I need more messages like that–
    xtine, you should write a column and get syndicated

  12. Clare Kho Says:

    Useful indeed. though im not a fan of texting, nice post!

  13. mishee Says:

    interesting. :)

  14. Jojo Skeene Says:

    I’m not into text…Fido will charge me with TAX…expensive!

  15. Brains trump tits Says:

    Let’s see, don’t ever answer a man right away, make him wait, but if he doesn’t answer YOU right away, then he’s not worth the trouble. You utter, self-absorbed hypocrite.

    Sure, follow all these tips. Then your entire relationship will be based on a manufactured personna — a lie — and you can have endless hours of fun screaming at each other, “You’re not the man/woman I married!” and be secure in the knowledge that you’re both right, because you both faked it from day one.


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