Sure and Simple Way to Make Your Ex Want You Back!

March 8, 2011 by Tiffany Aliano  
Published in Relationships

So, you and your love decided to go your separate ways and now you wish the two of you were back together again. Whether they are trying to avoid you or just making it clear that they are no longer interested. Guess what? There is still a chance! Think about it! You possessed the traits that they were interested in once before, what is so different now.

So, you and your love decided to go your separate ways and now you wish the two of you were back together again. Whether they are trying to avoid you or just making it clear that they are no longer interested. Guess what? There is still a chance! Think about it! You possessed the traits that they were interested in once before, what is so different now.

Sometimes when people are together they start to become co-dependent which raises their expectations of their partner as well as simultaneously getting lazy as far as how they can satisfy their partner mentally, physically or just even overlooking small social ques. So how can you get your partner to see the person they first fell in love with and take interest in perusing you again?

Simple, what are some of those dreams you and your partner discussed during those intimate yet inspiring conversations? Did you want to land a job, start a class, and get into a new and exciting hobby? Well, go ahead and jump into it, not only is it beneficial for you to get your mind off them, it will also show them signs that you are happy even without them. The sooner you do this the better; as your ex will be still struggling with the break-up themselves they will be curious as to how you are moving on so soon. By showing that you are productive and happy, they will instinctively wonder whether you are seeing someone else or not.  Viola! The tables are turned your ex will become both curious and jealous of your new glow and will find themselves now pursuing you.

Remember during the time immediately after your break-up is your time to rebuild and empower yourself. This is the time you want to understand why the break up happened in the first place, any habits that contributed to it or any emotional issues on your part. By using this time to better yourself, you are sending the message to your ex that you are a better person and you have changed for the better.

Finally, upon first contact in which your ex has initiated you want to come off cool and collect. You want to convey that your life is great and you are doing wonderful without coming off too needy for approval or too cold. Let your ex do all the work as to how they will try to get back into your life. There will be a time where you will find yourselves alone and in a moment sparks will ignite and they will be in your arms once again. Just remember to play it cool and not to fall into your old habits again. Good luck!

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