Some Tips FOR Girls Toward Boyfriends

January 19, 2011 by olike1209  
Published in Relationships

It’s all about doing good things and be good.

Have you ever wondered and thought about your life the way it is? How it looks like? Or how is it going to be? Especially about lovers (boyfriends)!! That’s really what I’m going to talk about. I do understand. It’s not easy; and I’m not going to show you if it’s the right one or not, but just how will you react in some kind of love things. People may think, “Oh, I know what you’re going to talk about”, but I just want to give some advice for girls like me who are passing through difficult love situations.

  • First of all the secret is being good and not only that but doing good also. It may be hard, even myself can never do that, but just think of it as a quality, not as a duty.
  • You’ve got to be honest, keep in mind that not all guys are bad. Not because you’ve been hurt by a stupid one that you will be tortured by another. People are different from one another. There is got to be someone trustworthy out there. Try to be honest with whoever guy you’re going to be with. If He’s not faithful, then it’s not your problem, He’s the one who’s going to suffer because He’s the bad one.
  • Next, do not ever lie, even when you have to and even though it may affect your whole love story. Don’t be scared because that’s the best women quality. ALWAYS TELLING THE TRUTH. However, do not make mistakes, NOT TO LIE is different from TELLING ALL TRUTHS. Don’t ever lie, but don’t tell everything you know, as the expression “Not all truth is worth revealing”.
  • Always be faithful: life is just passing, people need to do good things to one another. One of them is being faithful to your partner. As I said, yes IT IS HARD especially when it’s not the case with your boyfriend. You know what? Your boyfriend should not be your idol, he should only be your closest friend with whom you share your joy and sadness, with whom you spend much time than others and to whom you share your love.
  • Show him to your family: if He doesn’t want to, then accept his choice, don’t ever force a guy to follow what you want because, as we know that man should be the first, so respect him. However, your family needs to know him for them to give their opinions about him (if he deserves you or not).
  • Try to change his bad characters: as long as you show good characters to him, sooner or later he will be influenced and changed, JUST BE PATIENT. Patience is a good qualification of Love and for women also.
  • Try to take advantage of his good characters. Everyone has bad and good characters. But my advice is: be OPTIMIST, try to seek his assets and do everything you can to have them too.
  • Do the 65% of things that he wants you to do. Because 45% of them are not necessarily good, but if you want to preserve his love for you, then just obey this. It sounds crazy sometimes but if you want your love to last and his also, you need to persevere in many things.
  • Keep yourself clean; which means, virginity is the best gift you give to your partner after marriage. If ever this is not the case for you, don’t worry it doesn’t mean that it’s the end of the world for you. NO. You will always have the opportunity to have a good relationship, a good family and a good husband if you PRAY TO EARNESTLY TO GOD TO GIVE THEM ALL TO YOU.

AS LONG AS YOUR BOYFRIEND IS NOT YOUR HUSBAND, KEEP IN MIND THAT HE’S NOT YOURS COMPLETELY. HE CAN CHANGE HIS MIND TIME AFTER TIME. BUT THE MOST IMPORTANT IS, DON’T LET HIM DESTROY THE GOOD CHARACTERS YOU ALREADY HAVE AND DON’T GIVE YOUR WHOLE HEART TO A PERSON TO KEEP YOU HEART FROM BEING HURT IF EVER BAD THING HAPPENS.

The most important is: “ALWAYS BE GOOD AND DO GOOD THINGS WHATEVER YOU DO, WHEREVER YOU ARE AND WHOMEVER YOU’RE WITH”

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  1. Mary Patricia Bird Says:

    Excellent advice. I have had to remind my 17yo daughter that her boyfriend is NOT her husband. But would like to add that even if he is your husband, you still don’t own him. You both need to be able to have your own friends and do stuff without each other.


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