Reasons Why Love is Not Blind
February 12, 2012 by Zyloids
Published in Relationships
Three main reasons why love is not blind.
Love is not supposed to be blind. Love is supposed to see. Here are the reasons why.
1. If love is blind, then what would you do if one day you wake up and see the truth that the one you married have a lot of shortcoming that would disappoint you. Would you still love them or leave them? You should see it all the first time you’ve met the person and decide whether you still want to be with them despite of their weakness.
2. Love is not blind because love is supposed to see the needs of the one you love. Real love sees the needs and wants of their partner and know how to deal with it. How would we make our partner happy, glad and satisfied? Am I not lovable anymore? Is there something wrong in our relationship that need to be fix? What went wrong? Why does our relationship doesn’t seem to work? It should see these things in order to maintain and nourish the relationship.
3. Love is not blind for it should see what is right and what is wrong. Sometimes love makes the person blind. They doesn’t see what is right and what is wrong. They doesn’t care whether their relationship is hurting someone. They don’t care if their a mistress or turned out to be a home wrecker as long as they love the person, they don’t care what the world will says. Their whole lives revolves around the person they love that they forget they have a responsibilities to their family and friends, that needed their affection too. Love should see the boundaries and limitations. It must be balance. It should obey the law of men and law of God.
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February 12th, 2012 at 10:26 pm
nice share
February 12th, 2012 at 11:59 pm
Great work… thanks.
February 13th, 2012 at 7:28 am
Very well expressed and explained. That romantic kind of love perpetuated by our society is really stupid. I would prefer to think of “blind love” as being, seeing the flaws in the one we love, as not being perfect but loving them anyway, as long as those flaws aren’t criminal, perverted or unacceptable. Great article.
February 13th, 2012 at 12:26 pm
Pretty good reasons. Love shouldn’t be blind.
February 15th, 2012 at 9:49 pm
Very good article… thanks for sharing.
February 15th, 2012 at 9:59 pm
Nice article, thanks for sharing
February 15th, 2012 at 10:01 pm
The article is pretty good
February 16th, 2012 at 9:40 am
nice
February 16th, 2012 at 10:39 am
Interesting point of view. I liked it.
February 16th, 2012 at 2:04 pm
This is very true. Real love is not blind, but allows us to love others despite of their weaknesses. Thanks for sharing this.
February 16th, 2012 at 3:42 pm
still i think love is blind.
February 16th, 2012 at 10:29 pm
Yeah, I agree that love is not blind
February 18th, 2012 at 7:22 am
love is feeling not logic. when you feel you might ignore logic, here it is blind.
if you see the logic also, then it is not blind but it is not love either.
thanks for sharing.
February 22nd, 2012 at 3:12 am
Thank God somebody spoke about this!
February 22nd, 2012 at 8:14 am
good read worth sharing. you are welcome!
February 23rd, 2012 at 1:18 am
I agree. It’s all too sad many enter a relationship blindly. it could be with one person or having an affair with another, yet somehow those people develop romantic illusions of a happy relationship. They cannot foresee romance will soon fade. If they do not begin a relationship with solid foundation, it will inevitably come to ruin.
February 25th, 2012 at 8:42 pm
I always wondered what it says about a person when they are disturbingly attached to a really inappropriate person for them. Total commitment to a terrible relationship. Yikes, God help us. I heard somewhere though, that it is better to have loved foolishly and too well, than to have loved wisely, and not well enough.
March 4th, 2012 at 9:07 am
Is Love merely a mechanism for finding and selecting a good **mate**? Interesting stuff.
March 7th, 2012 at 7:11 pm
I like to say eyes wide shut.
March 16th, 2012 at 11:21 pm
Yes, when we were in love our eyes were widely open.
March 17th, 2012 at 8:31 am
Interesting views.
April 18th, 2012 at 2:13 pm
Eh I think love can be both blind and seeing it really depends on the person and how they process their emotions and thoughts.