How To Make Your Relationship A Bliss
August 3, 2012 by vijayanths
Published in Relationships
Everyone of us want to have a blissful relationship. Yet, we don’t want to work for it. We want that to happen automatically. Most relationships can’t last long and there are many reasons for it. The main reason is, we build our relationships on rights. On the other hand, if you want your relationship to prosper and last a lifetime, it should be based on duties. It’s as simple as that. Yet, none of us can make our relationships a bliss. Please keep reading….
Yes, We all want to have a blissful relationship: We all want blissful relationships. But we don’t want to make any sacrifices for it. We want our partners to love us unconditionally. We expect our partners to care for us. We want our partners to make us happy. In other words, we think we have the rights to get all these things from our partners. We want to build our relationships on rights. The problem is our partner is also expecting the same things from us. They also want to build the relationships on their rights on us. That’s why all these relationships fail miserably over time.
How to have a blissful relationship: If you really want to have a heavenly relationship, you need to work for it. You need to do your duties you have to do for them. In other words, you should love them unconditionally. You should care for them. You should be happy to make them happy always. It’s about giving than getting. It’s about sacrificing for your partner without expecting anything from them. I know it’s easier to say than to follow these tips. Don’t you think, it’s worth to make these sacrifices to enjoy a wonderful relationship with your partner? It’s an Universal law that you have to give something to get something. If you want heavenly marriage/relationship, you need to make these sacrifices. There is no other way, no short cut for a wonderful relationship.
Summary: Is there anything more precious than a heavenly relationship with your partner? Nothing can replace the happiness you would get from a blissful relationship. All good things have a price. If you really want to enjoy a heavenly relationship, you have to build it on duties. You have to live for your partner. Their happiness should be your top priority. It’s about giving and not expecting anything in return. Thanks for reading.
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August 3rd, 2012 at 1:20 pm
Good image
August 3rd, 2012 at 8:52 pm
Total unconditional love is something we give too our children.
Total unconditional love for your wife, caring for her every-need and compleat attentiveness, though admiral, I think would, could drive her completely MAD!!
Sorry but there’s one-thing women hate and that’s being fawned-upon.
After 42 happy years of marriage to the woman I love, I honestly believe give and take and total honesty, just pulls you closer and closer. And sorry but I hate the word partner used in a loving relationship. To me a partner is someone you work with, but maybe I’m just being old fashioned.
August 3rd, 2012 at 11:37 pm
I agree with you dear friend that unconditional love is the best ingredient to a lasting relationship.
Great article!
August 4th, 2012 at 12:10 am
Hi, sloanie, Thanks for the good discussion.
It’s life partner I meant.
August 13th, 2012 at 10:15 am
Duties > rights always. Responsibility is very important in a relationship, and so is give and take. I completely agree with you.