How to Deal with a Husband Who Loves Other Women

           I have been with my husband for eleven years.  Throughout those years I have learned to adapt to many many things.  He has had a few so called girlfriends but only one wife.  While at first I always thought there was something wrong with me, I realized that I was fine.  I’m a very good woman, i cook, clean and I’m a good girl.  On top of that i am sexy.  Him being with other women use to make me think that I needed to change who I was inside and out, but that is not the case.  Men like variety, but they also like stability.  I’m a strong woman and i think I am now stronger than I have ever been before because I now know the real deal.  I would worry about him leaving me for his girlfriends but that just never happened.  The ones I thought he was really into are no longer in the picture at all.  None of those women can measure up to me.  My husband is very attractive and charming, women flock to him all the time.  Men are attracted to me as well.  There has not been that many women but it was enough for me to find my self envious of them.  One day I just woke up and realized how special I am, I stopped putting so much energy into worrying about what the next woman was doing to make my hubby smile and concentrated o the things that made me happy.  Then I was able to give more of myself to him and eventually, the women vanished.  Sometimes being the other woman is not all it’s cracked up to be.  My motto is all men have cheated, will cheat , or are cheating.  There are three types of women, single by choice, the wifey, or the other woman, some women are better side pieces, some women are better mates.  That’s just opinion.