Getting Over Your Cheating Boyfriend

June 9, 2010 by Todd Hicks  
Published in Relationships

Learn how to cope with your man being disloyal.

Do you have a boyfriend? If so, do you expect to spend the rest of your life with him? It would be great if this happens, but it is not a guarantee. After all, you cannot watch him every second of the day to make sure he is staying loyal to you. You will learn how to cope when you find out your boyfriend has cheated on you.

First Way: You must keep your cool and refrain from doing something such as clobbering him with an object or beating up the other lady he is now seeing. Committing violence is wrong and demeaning; also, it can bring you legal and civil trouble.

Second Way: You can talk to him about it. You should ask him why he did it and gently let him know how you feel.

Third Way: You have the option of feeling worthless. Why not hold a self-pity party and ask yourself, “What is wrong with me? What do I need to do to keep a man from becoming attracted to others?”

Fourth Way: You should officially end your relationship. You deserve better than to tolerate this mess.

Fifth Way: It is recommended you move on. Life is too short to let this consume you.

Sixth Way: You should take your time looking for another guy. It is important to make sure you are totally over this situation before trying to trust someone else.

Seventh Way: You can try to screen your next potential mate. You should try to find out if he has cheated on women.

Eighth Way: You must get a good grip on the situation. One way you can do it is to tell yourself it is not your fault.

Ninth Way: You should put yourself in the other lady’s shoes. You can do it by saying, “She’ll probably go through this too.”

Tenth Way: It is okay to cry if you feel it is necessary. This can make you feel better and make it easier to move on.

Eleventh Way: It would be good to take a long walk. This is a good way to reduce your stress and emotional pain.

Twelfth Way: You can focus on having good emotions. You should laugh and try to be happy regularly.

Thirteenth Way: It is best to take the high road. You should not dump your boyfriend while cursing him or his mistress out.

Use this advice to cope when you find out your boyfriend has cheated on you!

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One Response to “Getting Over Your Cheating Boyfriend”
  1. Anuradha Ramkumar Says:

    Good advices.

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