Women, Let’s Get Along

10 Reasons Why Women Hate Each Other

1. Because of a man
2. Ignorance
3. Jealousy
4. Too much gossip
5. Attitudes are different
6. Misery
7. Stress
8. Friendships
9. Low self esteem
10. “The miseducation of a woman”

And so on. The only reason why i stress this topic is because i am a woman and that shit just isn’t an easy thing.

Don’t get me wrong, I love the woman that I am; infact I AM my own “WOMAN” which stands for, “why overjudge me and not know me”.

As a woman coming from the hardknock life and falling into the deeper holes that i dug for myself, I can relate to anykind of “WOMAN”. I just would love to know why do we hate eachother so much? We stay arguing with eachother for the silliest of reasons and it’s beginning to scare me. Some of us are friends and can’t stand eachother because you talk about eachother like dogs and you told it to the wrong person. That’s one of the biggest issues with women, we have trust issues with one another and we take it out on eachother because we have trust issues with ourselves.

Too many times we don’t realize that we have so many more responsibilities just being a woman that at the end of the day you just wanna be alone with the other you and that’s okay. I have surveyed alot of men and i asked them why do women hate eachother. My reason for asking the opposite sex is because they are outsiders looking in and they can relate to women in more ways than one. I had gotten all different kinds of feedback. One man said cause we are miserable and that’s why we keep eachother company. He said all we do is sit around gossip and scheme. It was making me kind of upset when I was hearing that but they say that the truth hurts. So I kept my cool cause being the professional woman that I was at the time ;I asked. ‘Ladies if this doesn’t apply let it fly”

Now we gossip and that’s just what we do and there is nothing wrong with it only because without it there would be no talk.! There is a time and place for everything and some of us put their time and effort into the bullshit of a gossip. What I mean by that is if your one of those females that sit around allday and gossip and scheme than you have nothing else better to do. That can make woman hate you and it can make woman love you but the question is? What kind of woman does that make you? Do you make gossip apart of your life because there is something missing out of yours? See it becomes a problem only if your a troublemaker and you think that your gaining friends and social dates when in all reality you surround yourself with misery loving company.

There are all different kinds of women. You have the women that’s serious, independent, sneaky, canniving, cool, grimy, two faced,happy,sad,angry,sexy, not so sexy,skinny, fat, quiet, loud, gay, promiscious, conceited, confused, depressed, emotional, sensitive,gold diggers, hard working, good mothers, on welfare, bad mothers, abused woman, mad at the world,etc. That’s enough to deal with just being one. Let’s take the canniving cool and grimy group and put them with the hard working good mother and sensitive. What makes them so different? Beacause of who they are or who they were? They could of been the vice versa before they made a choice of who they wanted to be. My point is Ladies, whoever you are and whatever position of a woman you choose to be, you are always and forever going to be a woman regardless.

It doesn’t help to be mad at anybody because it’s your world and you created it. You surrounded your life with all the finer or bitter appliances of what it comes with. It bothers me that we don’t get along as woman and we are all the same creatures. You are no better than me and I am no better than you. I look you up and down because it’s my eyes. I am jealous of you because I am insecure. I talk about you behind your back because you are “just that important. I like your man because he likes me and as a woman we allow our emotions to get the best of us especially dealing with the opposite sex. I then asked the Ladies “Why do we hate eachother”.

I had about 100 tell me becauseof a man. I laughed so hard because that was what I needed to hear to just make what I have to say juicier”. This is for the ladies who can’t get along because of the opposite sex! There are so many men out here who we can’t resist that we will go so far as to killing eachother. It Is a disgrace and it definetly isn’t your fault. One lady told me about a time when she was dealing with a married man and the wife found out and tried to kill her. In regards to that; If you know that this man has a wife and probably about 2 or 3 kids, then would you even lower your standard of dealing with him. Go get your own man and build your own foundation That’s just the bottom of the line. The type of woman that it makes you is “canniving and lost in your own source of low self esteem, and because of that, you would mess up someone else’s life who’s trying to settle in her life and become the woman that she is.

Then when she has to find out that the love of her life is a cheater,that’s more than enough to wanna kick your ass, and even hate you. Now you and her are at odds because this man couldn’t control his attraction to his liking of many different women. Yes we are wrong for dealing with eachother man at the same time, and if the two didn’t know about eachother then why hate eachother? We have to learn the self respect first and then deal with eachother on the core of the situation at hand. We set eachother up and we make eachother’s lives hell over someone who doesn’t even know the “Truth Behind Women and we don’t realize that we are all alike in some way or another so we are being tooken advantage of at hand. Now men; if this doesn’t apply then let it fly; Women are some emotional creatures, you can love us, hate us, lust us, break us , make us.

We are stronger than you may believe even if that woman that you have seems like she’s weak, she can’t help herself if your telling her that she’s god’s gift to the world, and we are also go gettas by any means necessary, which can also mean “we will ride or die with who we love”. We are also intimidated by eachother cause if I am who you chose to be your woman, then why are you sharing somebody else with the concerns that I already have with me just being a woman. It becomes a jealousy thing with women because we don’t understand what does she have that you don’t? Is she prettier than me, is she smarter than me, is the sex better than mine, do you love her more than you love me? We start bugging out and it gets us to hate because the answers are unknown. He can’t answer them, but I can and I am only giving my opinion as a woman that see and hear it everyday. It’s un lady like and if you are a” woman” and your wondering why can’t I get a man or why is she so prettier than me and why ..why..why..?

Do me a favor, take a look at yourself in the mirror, and compare yourself to that same woman and see what you get. Just remember that you are your own woman, whatver that means, yon can build your own foundation or you can tear one down and it still doesn’t make you. What makes you; is life itself and not comparing yourself to anybody, making your own choices, being loyal to your character, standing out quietly but you still shine, having positive things to say about you, being able to admit that you have an issue and it isn’t a bad thing if you still conduct yourself like a woman. We struggle everyday with the feed back that we get for being different so why give anybody what they are already looking for?

The choice is up to you, and as for me being a woman I DO have have issues, and I sometimes say that” I can’t stand females, and I have my reasons but in all reality, I love all of my sisters, just because I love me. So love yourself and be a positive role model to yourself and the rest will follow. You are your best friend, first and foremost, and without accepting you then no one else will know or understand what to deal with. Trust yourself. and out and the more we can express that to “eachother without needing a man to do it, then we will be sisters in the eyes of the beholder. We are precious, we are diamonds. yes we have issues but we also have alot of responsibilities of being a woman. So why hate on the next woman when we are all just alike in some form or fashion?