Wise People Never Argue
People argue about different matters with different people. It seems that it’s almost inevitable to avoid arguments in our daily life. So, why do people argue? What do they get from arguments? Is it wise to get into an argument? Should we argue and make the other person understand that he/she is wrong? ‘Wise people don’t argue’ says the Bhagavad Gita. It’s true that we can avoid most of the arguments if not all. Why should we avoid arguments? Please keep reading….
So, why do people argue? People argue for different reasons. No two people think alike. People are different and have different views and ideas. They argue when they don’t believe in what the other person does or says. Some people argue to show off to the world that they are the most intelligent person on the Earth. They think that they have more knowledge in all matters than others. They normally are stubborn and reluctant to change their views. Their ego will not allow them to admit their mistakes. In fact they will not even try to understand what the other person has to say on the matter. However, these people would blindly believe whatever the so called big companies/people say. They are so crazy about fame and recognition that they will be willing to get it at the expense of a community. Arguing with these people is as futile as doing agriculture in deserts.
Why you should not argue: There are two types of people basically, the smart and the stupid. There is absolutely no use in arguing over anything with stupid people. So, the smart people are the real problem. On the other hand when you argue with smart people, they will never accept your view points. If you win the argument, you will lose their friendship. If you lose the argument again you are a loser. It’s a kind of lose-lose situation when you get into argument with smart people. Indian women are smart by nature and hence they don’t argue with their husbands. They lose arguments and win the love of their men.
However, healthy debate is always good and will help both the parties to learn more on the topic debated.
Summary: You will never gain anything through arguments. It’s wise to avoid most of the arguments if not all. Arguments will ruin friendships and relationships. Bottom line is ‘wise people never argue’. Thanks for reading.
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