The Sabotager

October 8, 2012 by Tiki33  
Published in Friendship

There are individuals who will live their lives trying to sabotage others. They don’t understand that they are only hurting themselves.

People who sabotage others are bitter and think that if they make others suffer than they’ll feel better. Those who allow themselves to fall prey from evil thinking are weak in the mind. They may think that they enjoy hurting others for what ever reason but they are so miserable that they are crying out for help. Not all people who sabotage want someone to intervene. They may feel comfortable being the way that they are. They may find that being that way prevents them from getting hurt.

People who do nothing but sabotage have inner issues that they have not dealt with, they may have experienced abandonment or abuse in their lives. They just want someone to hurt, usually someone that they are jealous of. They continue to focus on negative situations and their thinking process is discombobulated. They really need to seek professional help but rarely do. It’s just sad that they live their lives trying to destroy others.

These type of people build relationships with people who are just like them. They may use them to do their dirty work or need someone around them who understand them. They try to prey on the vulnerable, they may even pretend to be helping an individual but in the end wrap them up. Sabotager’s work at their evil techniques, they develop new skills to bring people down. They are so in tuned with destroying that they neglect their business.

You can easily recognize them, they will take jabs at you as soon as you meet them. They will get others to do exactly what they are doing. They will smile when you are looking but when you turn your head they have an evil look on their faces. You may feel strange about them when you come in contact with them. They could be a family member or even a friend. If you have any friends who are sabotager’s than you need to distance yourself. If you can avoid getting hurt than do so.

Trying to reason with a sabotager is hard to do. They don’t want to hear what you have to say. They want to control you in every way possible. They want to win at the game and could care less about you getting hurt in the process. They may try and befriend you but don’t fall for their antics. They are good at what they do. They have been doing their dirty deeds for a long time. Try and stay clear of sabotager’s if possible. You want to stay safe!

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13 Responses to “The Sabotager”
  1. Rose that grew from concrete Says:

    I know a lot of people like this sadly. There is only the few I trust. Great article you made some good points here I think this is also why I prefer animals and pets to people

  2. Jswana Says:

    Plenty of them out there! Like Rose said, I have met some too. The scary part is that they take the time and effort to do something mean when normal people simply react one way or the other. Thanks for sharing. :)

  3. Emancipation Says:

    I agree. Too many people want to hurt the other these days.

  4. lauralu Says:

    Thankfully most people aren’t like this be that want to hurt others are insecure individuals, Good post thanks.

  5. lauralu Says:

    Thankfully most people aren’t like this be that want to hurt others are insecure individuals, Good post thanks

  6. lauralu Says:

    Thankfully most people aren’t like this be that want to hurt others are insecure individuals, Good post thanks.

  7. Robin L Says:

    Very good article, Tiki…Unfortunately I know a lot of people like this and that is probably why I have turned into a bit of a hermit…

  8. SharifaMcFarlane Says:

    Thanks for this. Accurate description.

  9. SharifaMcFarlane Says:

    You just have to enforce the boundaries and not get too caught up in them if they are someone close to you.

  10. Martin Kloess Says:

    Well written piece, thank you.

  11. Kai Vicky Says:

    But the world still has some good and trustworthy person. You just need to find them.

  12. girishpuri Says:

    very well described.

  13. elee Says:

    very nice article ;)

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