How to Win a Girl’s Heart Through Her Friends

August 10, 2012 by Sam Wheeler  
Published in Friendship

If you want to catch the girl of your dreams, chances are you will need to go through her friends first. While it may seem like a daunting task, you can actually turn this to your advantage.

It is said that the best way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. But what is the best method on how to win a girl or how to attract a girl? It’s usually more complicated than preparing dinner or baking a pie, but one surefire way to hit the jackpot is to win her friends over. They are, after all, always there to give her advice and to influence her on matters of the heart. If they hate you, your chances with your dream girl will become slimmer than a stick. If you make them love you, on the other hand, then they can help you convince the girl that you are indeed the one meant for her. This is one of the best ways to win a girl. Here are a few tips on how to get the girl friends to back you up:

Be Friendly

This is an obvious tip. You should never ignore her friends and you should try your best to be comfortable in conversing with them. Be comfortable with them on a platonic level and try to get to know them as well. You may not be looking for friendship but this will be a good chance to get more friends by your side. Be yourself and act as naturally as possible. Don’t try too hard and never be pretentious. Once any of these girls discover that you are playing them, your chances of getting the girl will be gone with the wind. On the flip side, you should never be flirty with her friends. You still have the task of making her feel that she is the only girl in the world for you. Do not come across as a player who wants to get it on with everyone with a skirt. There is a big difference between being friendly and being flirty.

Understand the Group

Learn the group dynamics if you want any chance to penetrate it. If they are huddled together and talking about something that seems like a secret, leave them to it and never interrupt. Wait for your cue and time your comment when things are less intense. If their body movements are more relaxed, then that would be a good chance to sneak in a line or two. If they start laughing as a group then that is a good sign that you can interject and share your thoughts about the topic. Have fun with them but be careful not to overstep.

Keep your confidence at all times (but do not be over confident). Women can instinctively detect if you are insecure or desperate. Do not be intimidated by their closeness or their appearance. Do not make yourself feel that you are out of place. Be comfortable with yourself and the situation, and everything else will fall into place.

Treat Her Well In Front of her Friends

Be the perfect gentleman without overdoing it. Offer her drinks and make sure that you offer to pay for them afterwards. Hold the door open for her and her friends. Be courteous and respectful. Let her seat first and pull her chair or stool for her. If her friends see that you take good care of their friend, then you will look like a hero to them.

It may be challenging to find a girlfriend, but the quest will become so much easier if you get important people to back you up. Remember that while you want to date that girl, you need to learn to adapt to what is important to her and whom she cares for the most in this world.

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3 Responses to “How to Win a Girl’s Heart Through Her Friends”
  1. girishpuri Says:

    very interesting share.

  2. herjave01 Says:

    Nice. :) Thank you for sharing!

  3. Sam Wheeler Says:

    thanks girishpuri and blue hana!

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