How to Let Him Know You are Interested in Him

The expression “to catch someone’s eye” is very appropriate. Most impressions are created by that very first look. If you want to let him know you are interested, the simplest way to appear open to his attentions is to catch and hold eye contact with him. The saying goes, “the eyes are the windows to the soul”, so allow yours to express your inner feelings.

A smile is always welcoming but make sure you allow your smile to reach your eyes. Relax and feel the warmth you want to send out to him and your eyes will do the rest. A warm relaxed smile will immediately attract attention. This may be difficult but remember that the best relationships are based on friendship. If you are always uptight and nervous around him he will not get the right impression.

Cultivate and nurture your friendship with him so that you can relax and let your real self shine through. The more true to yourself you are, the more your inner beauty will show.

When he speaks to you make sure you listen. Do not think ahead to what you want to say, just let it flow. You will be surprised how easy chatting with him is when you are relaxed. When you really listen to someone it can be very intimate and revealing.

Listening can be difficult at first but it is well worth practicing. Try to switch off your inner voice and really concentrate on his words.

Be aware of your body language when you are around him. Folded arms, crossed legs facing away from him and leaning your upper body away all suggest that you are putting a barrier between you. This does not give him the feeling that you are interested in him.

Keep your arms loose with your hands in your lap or at your sides and relax your shoulders. Lean slightly towards him and sit facing him or beside him. Putting a table between you may also be seen as a barrier. Keep your body as relaxed as you can and you will seem very approachable.

If you are tired do not try to smother yawns behind your hand. This will make him feel he is boring you. If you are tired explain this and do not try to pretend you are wide awake.

Try to find out what he is interested in and if you do not know anything about it, do a little research. Even if it is something you have no interest in yourself, give it a chance. Who knows, you may even get to enjoy it!

Do not pretend to be an expert, explain that you know a little about it and ask him to tell you more. Most men love talking about their hobbies and really appreciate it when you take an interest.

Follow these simple guidelines and he is sure to get the message. The rest is up to him!