From Friendship to Love
May 14, 2011 by bigeyesgirl
Published in Friendship
Sometimes it turns out that we fall in love with our best friends who happens to be a handsome, attractive boy. How close should we go?
In the real world, we do fall in love with our bestfriends. But also in the real world, they should not allways react positive on our feelings. It’s such a strange thing, but in the same time, so natural.
One of the most important rules in a friendship of all kinds, is sincerity…truthfulness. That’s why you like a man in the first place, because it can be sincere to you, he doesn’t have to lie to you, all the things that you talk about, are open subjects. And this is the first step in to likeing him more than a friend. To be honest, most of the boyfriends are not friends with sincerity.
So, to be clear, if you decide to flirt with him, you have to do it very subtle, because he might feel agressed an start to avoid you. If, in another way, he doesn’t seem agressed by the way you flirt with him, and tries to kiss you, hugs you everytime he has a chance, there might be some signs that you two could have a relationship.
A good idea is to stay away for a while, a few days, hours, to see his reaction and not seem to” into him”. If he tries to reach you more, and gives signs of fear to lose you, it is also a forward step. If not, he might have understood your intentions and you shouldn’t go further.
You have to be true to yourself though..Are you sure that a love story will function better between you and him than a friendship story?
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