Cope with a Jealous Friend

July 9, 2013 by Jaap van Waveren  
Published in Friendship

Cope with a jealous friend.

Annoyed to have friends jealous? No need to fear, it’s a normal thing, really. Everyone can feel it, but it would be nice if you are able to control the jealousy. That way, it will not appear bad things later.

It is hard to deal with a jealous person, but there are several ways you can do about it.

1. Understand others

Find out the reason other people are jealous of you. Everything happens for a reason. Well, jealousy is also sure to happen for a reason.

Many people are jealous of the things that you have or are working to achieve attainment. It is humane because they feel they have what you have.

All you need to do is to find out the reason, do not let jealousy that someone else will be hostile to you.

2. Ignore it

Sometimes ignore it the best route if you feel you’ve done everything correctly.

Instead of ignoring him jealousy, more you focus on your work and improve your performance better. Make it as passion to get new things.

3. Confront the jealous

Another way is to face the person directly. Some people will be honest with what causes them jealous.

But not a few were evasive and dishonest. Make sure in resolving this case you remain calm and do not be provoked emotions.

4. Do not fall for rumors

Usually people who are jealous will talk bad things behind you. When this happens, do not be carried away and do not need to reply.

Enough just think you’re better than him. If you do not respond, it will disappear by itself.

5. Kind to the jealous

Not always rewarded with the evil vices. Do good on the jealous. This may be a bit annoying them, but with their kindness will be aware, jealous that there is no benefit to themselves.

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