Four Types of I Love You

1. I Love You Because -
This is the kind where the person seeks reasons for love. They said this kind of affection is usually noticed in teenagers. “I love you because you’re handsome/ beautiful. I love you because you’re cute. I love you because you look like a Hollywood actor/ actress. I love you because you’re rich. I love you because you have a nice car.“ But if you don’t have any luxury car or money, or not a good looking, “I don’t love you anymore….”

They also said that married couples sometimes love this way too. “I love my wife because she is beautiful and sexy.” After office hours, the husband is so excited to get home to see her lovely and voluptuous wife. But after 10 years of being married, they don’t want to get home so early anymore because their wife became fat or unattractive.

The problem is if there’s no good reasons anymore, the love suddenly stops.

2. I love you if -

This is the type where the person seeks conditions for love. “I love you if you will love me too. I love you if you will give me what I want.” They always expect something in return. It’s like it must and always should be a give and take relationship that if one doesn’t hold on at end of the deal the relationship will not work anymore.

“I love you if you promise to be a good and caring husband. I love you if you will give all the luxuries I want. I will love if you have a stable job and high salary. I will love you if you will meet my sexual needs.”

The problem here is the whole relationship is set by the conditions for both parties, and we forgot that nobody is perfect that things always change and we sometimes fail to meet the demands of our partners because of circumstances.

3. I love you even if -

In this, the person is martyr for love. “I love you even if you don’t love me. I love you even if you’re always hurting me. I love you even if you’re always making me cry. I love you even if you’re cheating on me.”

Even when they are already hurt, they still love their partner despite of everything. But this is somehow still wrong because you are chiding or blaming them. The relationship isn’t balance because your partner is unsatisfied, hurt and sad.

4. I love you. (period)

True love doesn’t seek any reasons or doesn’t blame. Love defies all reasons and logic. True love is unconditional. This is the type of love that everyone needs and everyone wants.

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