Don’t Settle for Anything Less Than Your Fantasy

Why on earth do women settle for anything less amazing then their fantasy men? Why do women stay with the men they say they love when they think of that other guy when they close their eyes every night? Why do woman say their happy when they know they couldn’t be any more lost?

The only answer I could come up with for these questions one word, Fear. Fear of the future, fear of loss, fear of never finding true love. I am guilty for this fear as well. We all are. You’re not alone. Each day you dream, fantasize of the perfect man for you, just to step into reality and sigh at the completely opposite man in your life. You want Passion, but you settle for dull make out sessions you engage in regularly but don’t even enjoy. You pray for a hero, who would take his own life for yours, but you’re walking hand in hand with a boy who could careless what you want. As long as he gets a piece of ass. Sound familiar? But why are we women so damn scared?

Are we not supposed to be strong feminine figures in today’s society? What is happening to this world? We can’t live on the thought that there’s no such thing as perfection, or complete happiness. Try the “ Anything is possible concept.” Because it’s true. Anything is Possible if you have the will to pour your heart out. If you believe you can do better than that asshole you’ve been seeing for 6 months, then leave him. Search for the happier you, until you could never be happier. It’s worth it. Life is too short to settle on what you believe is all you can get. You can have whatever you want, if you stop being so weak and falling under other people’s control. Find the independent woman inside of you and don’t let that soon to be ex-boyfriend push you around. You deserve so much more than that. I suppose that means me as well. I better get on that.