Why You Should Date a Younger Man
Saying that younger man is better than older one is a bias analysis. Comparing an old ship to a new ship is like comparing Noah’s Arc and Titanic.
Whatever circumstances you’re in now, don’t give up your older lover for the sake of dating younger men. If you are in you’re in your early 30’s, dateless and heartbroken; And that hot 21 year old gorgeous- 6- footer- knock-out looks is knocking in the doorstep of your heart, open the padlock for him. You’ll be thrilled of how much excitement and adventure you’re in. Surely, there’s no guarantee that you can find the perfect guy, coz there’s no such thing as “perfect guy”. Every one has flaws and weakness, which include woman at the same time. What matter most in a relationship is that there is a mutual understanding between things.
One of my principles in life is never to date a guy whose younger than me. Well? But as I walk through the bridges and patches of my life. Would I ever know? And, why would I write this type of article if I stick to my own prejudice?
Saying that younger man is better than older one is a bias analysis. Comparing an old ship to a new ship is like comparing Noah’s Arc and Titanic. Both of this ships has different stories, so do with the younger men and older men. So you can’t compare them.
There was a survey that one third of a single younger woman between 40 and 60 are dating younger men. Survey revealed this statistic. Hollywood also can attest about this type of scenario. For others, age is just a number and what matter most is the love feeling with each other.
Younger man is hot, fresh and innovative. They always on the go and willing to do beyond the limit for the sake of their love ones. As a matter of fact, they tend to be more mature than a woman. When you talk about your life problems, he is a better listener. You were just amazed on how profound and much wise advise stored in his heart. He speak the truth with love and care. He knows how to respect you as a person and as a woman. He never judge and pointed a fault on you. He will not think of you as weak and a woman that needs to be fixed. He always wants the best for you and willing to take a ride and adventures in life.
The misconception of women regarding younger men is that because they were born in the age of technologies and new innovations, the general impression about them is that they are playful and deceitful. However, you cannot just judge them right away. Younger ones has also qualities that you just open your eyes upon.
For sure, you’re afraid of what people will say; gossip, feedbacks and off-conversations may be over the edge. But, you see- it’s your life. Live your life according to what you desire. If you found that he’s the man you want to spend your life with, so be it. You’re the only one who can define your life, not the people who talk against you and your young lover.
Besides, according to the survey- men reach their sexual peak at their early 20’s and women is at their early 30’s– so why not enjoy the price?
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January 4th, 2009 at 7:25 am
I didn’t know this. Learn something new here! Great!
January 4th, 2009 at 7:58 am
I also found that younger men are available, where as older men are married..
Awesome article!
January 4th, 2009 at 12:27 pm
My man is ten younger than me and is my best friend.
January 4th, 2009 at 12:34 pm
My husband is 8 years younger than me.
January 4th, 2009 at 12:38 pm
I loved the article but it looks as if I got it the wrong way round. My husband is twelve years older than me. Its beginning to show.
Christine
January 4th, 2009 at 6:36 pm
I love the article too and like Christine, my husband is 10-years older than me.
Great post, Mys.
January 4th, 2009 at 8:59 pm
I too loved this article. My husband is 2 yeard older than me. I once dated a man 3 years younger. I never though much about age before. I have never seen a problem.
January 5th, 2009 at 1:05 am
Hi, I have many friends who marry younger men, though full of challange at the beginning of relationship as so many people opposed the relationship for the reasons that you have described in your article, they eventually manage to succeed. Nice article!
January 5th, 2009 at 12:31 pm
hmn nice . wat really matters is love. got 2 keep just dis thing in mind. and nice thoughts dere.
January 6th, 2009 at 6:59 pm
Younger men are wonderful.I am with a younger man now and it is great but it really doesn’t matter if he is younger or oldet. If you love each other and are commited to each other.That’s all that matters.
January 6th, 2009 at 11:09 pm
I loved this article, I agree. I think that people shouldn’t trade in what they have for anything just because they heard that it’s better, but if you are “lucky” to find love who is older or younger and it’s real, then definitely go for it.
January 7th, 2009 at 12:21 am
Great article, yes one must do what one feels in their hearts. If that is having relationships with younger men, as long as they are adults too, everything is fine. Me, I prefer dating men older than myself.
January 7th, 2009 at 9:46 am
I do not think age should be a factor in the dating game! It is what you feel for each other that counts not age! Do not limit yourself because of age.
January 7th, 2009 at 11:28 am
Not for me, I don’t have the patience! LOL I also believe in the old saying, ‘Better the devil you know, than the devil you don’t!’
January 8th, 2009 at 3:17 pm
love your stuff!
I have a thing for older guys, but then I’m only 20, so if I dated someone younger they would still be in school…
January 11th, 2009 at 7:07 pm
A nice approach to the subject, but if your statistics on sexual peak are correct….I am surprised…I am well beyond that and haven’t slowed dow on my more than once a day appetite..lol You cannot put all things in a nutshell like that. It’s the character of the man that determines how lively and fresh things remain, not his age. My wife is two years older than me. I Think your main point is right on…If that’s what you find and you encounter true love, it’s worth pursuing…it’s been somewhat more acceptable (unfairly) for men to date younger, but that’s changing every day and your article encourages that. Great Job!
January 11th, 2009 at 8:42 pm
Me? I just like ‘em stupid. If I get one that’s stupid, I can train accordingly..just a minute, my wife is correcting me. She’s gone. Yup, I like ‘em stupid–age doesnt’ matter. kidding, nice article!
January 14th, 2009 at 11:06 pm
i agree…although i enjoy younger men and older men..
January 17th, 2009 at 8:05 pm
Ive been on both sides of the fence with a older and a younger man.To me its all about the maturity and how much we have in common beyond sex.I think if you go for a May-December romance you both can benefit and learn something.Loved what you wrote,,,,brought out alot of good points.But I still think a ride in a old Cadillac at times is better then a speeding race car if you just want to slow it down some.