Why Might a Guy Not be Attracted to You?
March 30, 2009 by javedhassan99
Published in Dating
Even if you’re pretty – Why?
You ever notice how you can be walking down the street and some random guy will catch your eye? Or how one guy out of a group notices you specifically? Supposedly it’s pheromones that we send out that attract certain people.
Or maybe it’s just your personality he’s not attracted to. It isn’t always about looks. Even though some guys are shallow, you shouldn’t assume that they all are. Give your “guy” a chance. See what he’s like around his friends and you BEFORE you date/”go out” with him.
Get to know him as a friend, ask him a question about school or about something he likes. Maybe if you get to know him his feelings will change for you.
Some guys are put off by girls that they know are seriously crushing on them, so flirt but don’t throw yourself at him.
This same principle all applies to guys but maybe sometimes wavers.
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April 6th, 2009 at 4:08 pm
this isnt true because we all no that boys and men dont really pay attention to your personality its the looks they like i mean to you see a girl with a dog face with a guy at school that isnt her friend i dont think so so he isnt looking at the personality hes looking a her looks if she has looks then there are guys that are lookin or are with her most of te time.
May 19th, 2009 at 7:52 pm
not true, guy like girls who are confident and have a bright attitude too!
June 25th, 2009 at 5:53 pm
Exactly. When it comes to a guy looking at a girl, (i would know), most guys want a girl who knows what they want. Who takes as much initiative as he does. Who will say something and be honest with him. Again, the ones who don’t do that are the shallow guys you should stay away from.