Why Men Tend to Roam

Why Men Tend To Roam

Most of what’s being said is true that indeed, men do tend to roam more so than women.

Men tend to look backwards in time, when they are with their own women. They want to see her dress as she dressed ten or more years ago, before she had children and gained all that weight that never seemed to go away. How naïve men are. How can a man expect a woman to give him children, and retain her shape, like she was when they first dated is beyond me.

What some women do even if they do loose the weight, is dress in baggy clothing. Some women seem to hit a comfort zone, and never think that their men are looking at other women because most men hide it. Women feel as though their men will never stray, but what these women don’t seem to understand is that they are in a competition, that they don’t even know about.

The women at the office are her biggest competitors. Most of them are in their early to mid twenty’s and they dress sharp, as though each and every day is a competition between the other ladies in the offices in which they work. The many perfumes can sometimes drive a man just about crazy, the women looks hot, and in his mind, all of them are hot. 

How can a wife know the challenges that her man faces each day he works? There’s no way she can know, and unless she keeps up with the times, she may get left behind, and her man my run off with that pretty new receptionist who wears the shortest skirts, wow, he thinks to himself, how does she bend over, her skirts are so high?

If a man’s wife doesn’t keep looking as sexy as she can, there’s a good chance he will roam. Don’t ever forget a man’s biggest sexual organ is sitting on his shoulders. His brain, and it’s working over-time, he can’t get these women out of his mind, they just about drive him crazy, and the only thing he can do, in his mind, is have an affair with as many as he can. He’s driven, and unless his wife dresses sexy and wears the short skirts, and tight pants that the women in his office wears, she may not have a very good chance that he will stay loyal.

On the other hand many men do stay loyal to their wives and they have their reasons. Many men are completely happy with the women they share their lives with, and are happy that their women took the time away from the office to give them a family. He may look at other women, but that doesn’t mean that he’s ever going to stray, it just means that he’s looking at the menu, he’s not eating or buying. He’s happy with their love-making, and maybe to he thinks to himself, why wander, the woman I share my life with is as good a woman as I’m ever going to find.

Not every man cheats, and if you are a woman and with a man who does, I feel sorry for you. Do yourself a favor and kick him out, he’s not worth your time.

Ó Paul Faulkenham November 3, 2009