Why It’s Better To Be Friends First

It’s not a secret that many girls are boy crazy. They think that life would just be so awesome if it could be just like what they see in the movies: a sweet, caring boyfriend that is much like their modern day version of Prince Charming. Well, it’s also not a secret that most boys are not like that at all. Ladies, be friends with them first. That way you’ll know what boys are like when they’re just single and being themselves with their friends.

After getting to know them as friends first, you’ll know if you like them in a romantic way or not. Plus, they can tell you all the guy secrets that you couldn’t figure out with just your girl friends around. You can get inside his (your crush) head without really getting close to him. Of course, that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t try hanging out with your crush at all. Take the pressure off both of you and hang with your crush as friends. You’ll get to know him a lot better this way than you would if you ask him out right off the bat. Maybe after a while you’ll decide that you’re not compatible with him, and that will save a lot of trouble later on and heartache. Is getting the inside scoop great or what?