Why Do Men Cheat?
June 28, 2009 by BrandonGates
Published in Dating
There are two sides of this problem. First you need to figure out what cheating really means to men, and second, you need to figure out why men cheat. There are some scientists who say that there is some sort of “gene for cheating”, but others claim differently. So, if you ever wanted to know why men cheat, here’s a clue.
What is cheating? Actually, it’s quite easy to answer this one. Many women will see as cheating when their men check out other women on the street, or simply when they are reading Hustler or watching porn movies. Men don’t see this as cheating. It’s more like a sport for them to check out pretty girls and to watch adult movies.
But if a woman has a low self esteem, this can cause problems in a relationship. This is because women sometimes think that men are looking at other women because they can’t provide him with everything he needs. Sometimes this is true, but in most cases it isn’t.
So, the best way to overcome this is to build your self esteem. Many women are beautiful, they just don’t see it. But, be sure that your partner can see you as beautiful.
And why do men cheat? First you need to figure out what’s normal for men. You shouldn’t be upset if he comments on some other woman looks. If it can’t jeopardize your relationship, let him comment. One of the most important things in every relationship is trust. So, have one! Believe it or not, some men say that they cheat because their partner doesn’t have trust in them.
Modern Technologies
It’s much easier both for men and women to cheat than it was 30 or more years ago. People go on business trips more, they spend less time at home, and they go out without their more often. All of this has contributed to the fact that men and women cheat more these days. Not to mention social web sites like facebook, twitter, and myspace. You don’t even have to go on a business trip no more to cheat. Every housewife now has her opportunity to cheat if she is dissatisfied with her husband. So men, make sure that you be nice to your wives!
Not Thinking
Okay, let’s get back to the subject. Why do men really cheat? Sometimes it’s because they can’t see the consequences. It seems perfectly normal for them to cheat. Women often think of the damage that cheating can cause to their relationship, but men don’t. Yes, it’s sad, but it’s true.
No Sex at Home
When women don’t give men what they want at home, they are probably going to go and look for it somewhere else. So, if you are really tired make sure you tell your men why is it you don’t want to have sex. Surprisingly, but they will understand you. This is because men like to show their women just how special they are to them.
Born to Cheat
There are some men who can’t not to cheat. And if you ever wondered why men really cheat, here is your answer. Well, not all men are like this, not all of them really cheat. But, once you find out that you are in a relationship with a men who has a “gene for cheating”, it’s up to you to decide what to do.
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June 28th, 2009 at 10:37 pm
It’s really interesting actually, because a study came out last year saying that people who cheat actually have a gene that contributes to it.I also agree that women should have high self esteem-if a woman is always saying “oh I’m so fat, I’m so ugly” etc. pretty soon the guys going to think so too.
July 15th, 2009 at 11:14 pm
when men have sex with more than one person they are not cheating
but are multisexual
dissatisfied and womanisers
western wiorld doesn’t think so
all men have more partners,
whether married or not
only opportunity awaits them to explore
July 16th, 2009 at 3:54 am
What is cheating? Actually, it’s quite easy to answer this one. Many women will see as cheating when their men check out other women on the street, or simply when they are reading Hustler or watching porn movies. Men don’t see this as cheating. It’s more like a sport for them to check out pretty girls and to watch adult movies. -yes
I want to note that men are hunters by nature and when we are checking nice woman on street we do it because it is in our nature, and when we are commenting girls on the street it is like hunting story. Don’t take that from us.