Why a Man Gets Scared Away When You Try to Get Him to Commit for the Long-Term and What to Do About It

August 14, 2008 by gooddy  
Published in Dating

You can’t afford to throw away a good six months, year, or even longer, and risk losing what could be a valuable relationship, all just because you didn’t know how to handle a particular situation.

Why A Man Gets “Scared Away”
When You Try To Get Him To
Commit For The Long-Term-
And What To Do About It…”

You were trying to get CLOSER to him, and somehow he kept moving farther AWAY from you.

I’m guessing that when one of these things happened, your girlfriends said things like:

“He’s just a jerk, forget about him”.

Or they said: “He doesn’t see the mistake he’s making or what he’ll be missing”. But he never seemed to see these mistakes… or even miss you.

And the worst part of all: You kept thinking about it.

In fact, it really GOT TO YOU. And I’ll bet the REASON why it got to you is because you worried that it might have been something to do with YOU (and not just because he was a total jerk).

In fact, TO THIS DAY you still have the feeling that YOU may have done something wrong, and that you may have CAUSED some of the problems in the first place… and if you would have known the RIGHT thing to do, things would have turned out differently…

Unfortunately, the bad news is that you’re probably right.

Chances are, you DID have something to do with it, and things probably WOULD have turned out differently if you would have known how to deal with the situation.

You COULD have done something about it… if only you had known WHAT to do…

The Secret To Attracting And Keeping A Great Guy


The main PROBLEM here, and the thing that stood in your way, is that men aren’t easy to understand. And when you find a good man, he doesn’t come with an “instruction manual”.


Just because your girlfriends told you it wasn’t your fault, or that he was just “a jerk”, doesn’t mean that they understood the problem (or that they understand men at all, that matter).


Most women don’t “get” men. Your friends who try to comfort and encourage you have good intentions. They’re just trying to make you feel better.


But they’re also accidentally making the situation WORSE.


They’re trying to blame the situation on HIM, instead of trying to help YOU understand how to KEEP a great guy around.


This situation is MOST dangerous when you meet a really GREAT GUY, but you don’t know how to catch him or keep him. Let’s face it, great guys are hard to find… and when you do find one, you can’t afford to lose him because you made a dumb mistake.

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2 Responses to “Why a Man Gets Scared Away When You Try to Get Him to Commit for the Long-Term and What to Do About It”
  1. chimezie Says:

    I love it

  2. LoveDoctor Says:

    Very good advice and true.

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