Where to Find a Good Man

  Women all over the world want a good man.  What is a good man?  It is a man who is honest, faithful, wonderful to be with, and one who truly loves life and loves a good woman.  A good man is one who will fulfill his full responsibility of being a good husband and father, and who will admit his mistakes and try to improve himself to be the best possible person he can be.  It has been said that good men are hard to find, but here is a list of where good men can be found: 

1. At the Library. Many good men frequent the library.  They love to read and keep abreast on current events. Some go there to do term papers or research.  Some are there to learn about items of interest and there are some men who go to the library because their mother insisted that they go there when they were children.  This habit has continued with them all of their life. 
2. At the YMCA.  Believe it or not a lot of good men are at the YMCA.  Not all men who frequent the “Y” are married.  Man who go to the YMCA like to exercise and keep their bodies in good condition.  Some are in the workout room, others are in the swimming pool, and some on the gym floor.  A friend of mine met a very wonderful single gentleman there. 
3. At Church. You will find men who love God and want to become stronger and more committed men in church.  They see the need for wholesome living and  a good, clean life.  Although churches are also filled with single women, many churches still have good men there who are seeking a lifelong, Christian wife. 
4. Through Relatives. Many relatives who know you also know single men whom they feel are wholesome men who are also looking for that “right person”.  Don’t be afraid to ask you relatives if they know of good men who are single. 
5. Through Good Friends and Colleagues. So many times your very close friends want you to be happy and therefore they are willing to serve as “scouts on the lookout” for you.  Again, don’t step back from asking friends where you can meet a good man.  Sometimes these men are right underneath your nose and as close as your best friend’s brother,  uncle, or cousin. 
6. Local Small Singles Clubs– The reason small single clubs are better is that you have a chance to meet more of the people in attendance.  If you join such a club in your area, you will be able to meet the same people most of the time.  You will get a chance to interact as you participate in playing board games, going on field trips, and attending the meetings. 
7. At the College or University. Wow! there are so many good men striving to become even better by advancing themselves through higher education.  Some tend to marry late because of this very factor.  There is nothing like rubbing shoulders with such men when you need “just a little” help with your Algebra Course.  These men usually want something out of life, and this puts them in a category where men who have no ambition are nonexistent. 
8. Non-profit or Volunteer Organizations. Many good men who love others will be found working for  non-profit organizations.  These young men are ready to take on the world, and many of them are not married because they see the world as needing them.  Most good men who lend a hand to non-profit organizations are hard workers and will even go to other countries to help suffering humanity.  These men have hearts of  love. 
9. Philanthropic Dinners. Donors and those who give large charitable sums to worthy causes often attend fundraisers in support of their favorite charity.  You might want to purchase a ticket to attend one,  or know others who invite  you to attend such occasions.  It appears that men who love to give to their community and worthy causes are worthy of meeting if they are single. 
10. Concerts. Many good men have refined tastes.  They will be found at concerts and live theater.  They are captured by the fine arts and all things connected with them.  Some participate in the orchestra and choirs or plays.  To find them, however, you must know people who attend those occasions and those who are able to tell you information about available bachelors.  And believe me, there are some there. 
11. Art Galleries and Museums. Again, many good men attend love art and museum rummaging.  These places are like candy to them.  Some attend a few times each year, and many go there just to see the new exhibits on view to the public.  The people who run art galleries and museums can often tell you about those who frequent those places, and although you may not want to be so bold as to ask them who is single, you can go and do a little observation.  Who knows if eye doesn’t meet eye– and a work of beauty begins to take place within the both of you?
12. At Workshops. Often there are improvement workshops in your area.  Sign up for a few.  They are low costs, and perhaps as you begin attending a few, you will get to know a good man who just wants a good friend.  While everyone is working to get the information that the workshop is imparting, you can be working to locate that “gem” of a man.

There are many single men in the world.  Some want marriage, others want it sooner or later, and some never want it.  The amazing thing is that good men are still out there.  Some have experienced  a crushing divorce, some the death of a spouse, and some a heartwrenching relationship breakup.  These men are looking for love and healing in a cautious way,  but  just as they proceed with caution, put your yellow light on also and pray for guidance.  When you have found that good man, however, and feel that he is right for you, may  the green light go on, and he and you proceed full speed ahead.